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nijntje
18 yrs ago
Where can I find a foreign boy-friend besides bars and pubs? As I'm not a socialise people and I want to meet a real good guy, not a play boy.
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Kaat
18 yrs ago
Please refer to:
http://hongkong.asiaxpat.com/forums/relationships/threads/83048.asp
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The important question would be, "Would they want to meet you?"
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shaq
18 yrs ago
'Non-playable' foreign bf? Pray my dear, just pray that one descend from the heavens and drop at your door :D.
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Everyone know that all decent foreign boys come from Foreignworld!!
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It is Junction 8 off Looney-Tunes Highway
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shaq
18 yrs ago
I guess the 'fishes' in the larger pool do not suit her specifications :D.
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Has the poor gal has been scared off? or maybe has already taken the advice by CM and thrown a rock out and got lucky!
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Thanks. I agree foreigner are everywhere in foriegn countries. That's why I'll go there agian very very soon. Thanks for your suggestion.
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im aussie, looking aswell, too busy for clubs and sh*t, mjken2@hotmail.com
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It's nice to see how people are getting more honest about their 'desperation' nowadays.
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blaze
18 yrs ago
How about working in a hotel? Then you'll see nothing but foreign people all the time.
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Tht's also a good idea, but I'm not working in this field.
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nijntje, one queation?? why qweilo boy frineds?? Is it simply physical attraction or something else??
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Sorry I hvn't said tht I'll goign to find a bf here!!
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I'd like to find a foreigner as bf cos my thinking is more likely a westerner. I don't like "big man" thinking.
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you mean you don't like male chauvinist pigs?!
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wsbh
18 yrs ago
Then it's odd to go for westerners surely ;)
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Wait for the US Navy to arrrive...the boyfriends will come rolling in!
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lulu
18 yrs ago
Well i am the one that will not trust men anymore, especially in Hong kong.
Let's look at this way, a good looking and rich-ish chinese men will definitely go out with a beautiful chinese girl, but a good looking foreign guy might not, and ugly fat gewilo might go out with a ugly or beautiful asian women, and ugly fat chinese cannot go out with anyone, they go to mongkok, so which one is worst?
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Lulu - ever the romantic optimist I see.
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its amazing-'bagging' a man of a certain ethnicity has become a lifelong quest/dream!How shallow
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Meems
18 yrs ago
Foreign men??? have tried going onto ICQ and loads of guys from Turkey will hound you.
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Good luck Tony!!!!
God no wonder the gweilos think so much of themselves!!!!!
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Good boys are everywhere, just waiting to be molded into a man, by a good woman.
The question is, are you a good enough woman to transform this potential into a husband?
Why would the guy leave a extremely fun single life for an ordinary woman?
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KFW - most women do not want to be the "boys" mother... he already has one. :) Why would a woman leave her fun single life to mother a boy?
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Haha, good question Harimau.
I wouldn't say i was talking about mothering necessarily. A great woman makes the man want to be better, just to keep up.
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Sorry, just becos you dont understand me
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Just my own feeling and experiences. Local men always treats their gf strict, dont give any freedom to them, i dont like the way they do. I feel more comfortable to stay with a foreign man. Maybe I havn't meet the right one. But it's my own feeling.
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i'm 26. Yes i did. Wht do u mean by tht?
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I really sympathize . If you don`t want to join in the boring bourgeois set in the nightclubs where does one go . Is there anyone out there ?
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Well, Thanks for you all. Btw, one of the ppl here seems just symbolised the western men in HK=play boys. Tht's not fair for them though. I think both local and western guys have good and bad, just depends on their personality. But for sure what i'm looking for is a really good guy. And preferable western guy, tht's why i'm asking here...
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ha. is it that easy to find a guy in HK? i should thrown a rock down some window then.. lol.. ive been around the clubbing scene, but all the guys ive seen are either wayy too local or too old for me.. lol.. if u know where to find foreigners (as i get dirty looks from teh locals), please let me know. lol
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As a W male I can only speak for myself.
When I was in my 20s I would have treated my life (and girls) in Shanghai like a kid in a candy store.
Now I am in my 40s and married. My wife is only a few years younger than me, but not many.
I still like to look at other women, but am happy not to stray.
As a 20 something I was horny and not into commitment. I have changed. I also learned that I didn't make any real connections with the opposite sex in clubs.
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Really? I have to peel those horny expats off me ALL the time! ;)
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may be you hve to peel them of because you are particular pretty ?! ;-)
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I've just joined this site and was looking around. There's no way I can pass by this thread without replying.
If you're hanging around lkf, etc all you are going to find is playboys. Both Western and local.
I am a Western guy and I have been with my Hong Kong Chinese girlfriend for 6 years. There have been no problems with cultural differences (people just use that as something to blame when relationships fall apart). And I am also not a PLayBoy. It annoys me that people look at white guys in HK as Playboys. In fact most of the white guys I work with in HK are really nice guys who are just looking for a nice girl.
You'll get just as many bad and Playboy guys amongst the locals. In fact, in my industry (I'm a banker) that's all I ever see.
So I guess what I'm saying is don't generalise. You'll find good and bad in both local and Westerner. If you feel that you're more comfortable with a Western mindset, then go for that. Just don't look on lkf. The best thing to do is to find someone who can introduce you to a group that they trust.
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Yes, Josh! I totally agree with you! I always dotn understand why some people symbolise the westerneres in HK as Playboys! I also found even local men are worser than western men. But the point now is where can I find a really good and reliable western man here in HK? This is why I raise up the question here...
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Or u can introduce to me? hahaha
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Che Mango - just to add to it "All men would be playboys if they could" AND if they want to =)
Sometimes meeting nice people (man or woman) is like a lucky dip, isn't it?
I'm a Asian girl and have always thought that asian guys are more of the relationship type. But since coming back to HK, I've discovered that most asian guys I know (here in HK anyway) are the BIGGEST player that one has ever seen! I suppose people, esp locals, think that western people are a bit more open and hence "players" =)
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Kiwi Elaine - is that true, local boys are players too...?!
Am rather new in HK, please tell me more, would appreciate that!
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Navv
18 yrs ago
You seem to have spent a lot of time in the field. How many years ?
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If you've traipsed all over the bars in LKF and Wanchai and was unsuccessful, try going to the Quarterdeck in the Fleet Arcade/Fenwick Pier when the navy is here.
Last week there were 6000 US navy and marine soldiers roaming the streets and bars of HK. The catch is, they're here for 4 days, 5 max so you'd better be ready to do more than cartwheels. Otherwise the ladies in Wanchai will beat you to it..
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Nijntje, I would say 'let it be' and let him find you. Good lucy too :-)
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Meems
18 yrs ago
Hey Aspect, U have great recommendations there! Nijntie... you did say "foreign boyfriend", NOT "western boyfriend".
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I prefer western caucasian of cos.
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Lolli
18 yrs ago
nijntje, do what you want and get what you want... you will get it eventually...these comments are full of S***... they're trying to stop you to get what you want to get, i'm sick of seeing these happen again and again... you have right to get what you want ... in europe people are more open to accept people from other country... not like those in HK... majority of them are small minded
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