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honkie
18 yrs ago
for her own good just keep the secret and the one who confesses should be her, i deem...
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are you sure this isn't a wind-up? given your monicker and all (haha, very funny)...this really sounds like the plot of a soap opera!
if her husband really loves her, he will understand and accept her past, and forgive her for concealing it. but she'll have to answer a lot of direct questions as to why she had to leave her first two children behind.
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I guess she has to tell one day or another. Otherwise she will living in fear and feel guilty forever.
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shaq
18 yrs ago
Trouble (or misfortune) is part of your life — if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you a chance to love you enough (Dinah Shore).
Advise your friend to come clean, because lying is only an easy (and short-sighted) defense, but never the best. I believe if she tell the truth, she won't regret it.
ShaQ
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has she thot about the 2 kids she so denied now, they never hurt her in any sense and how awful for them not being able to be part of their mother's current happy life?
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owner
18 yrs ago
i understand a huge number of my fellowwomen are into that kind of "scam".
so its not unusual my dear. i was just with a bloke who knew a woman for three years, got married then later on found out she was and is stil married back home with kids too.
ayaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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JC are you speaking from experience?
A lot of women do NOT look like they've given birth more than once. Does that amaze you again?
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she should need to tell the truth, anything happened its happen, once her husband find out the truth, its more difficult to explain, is she never feel guilt about her to children left behind? it seem she already deny her children on her first husband.... she will never have a peace of mind, and its gonna be nightmare to her everytime she go to bed, i have 3 children on my early age i can tell people never believe eveytime i say i have 3 children, my body never change. still perfect, never sug my breast, and no stretch marks, maybe your friends same as me, but i am separated, never been devorce, all the man like me i tell the truth so they know who i am, if they can accept me as me fine if they dont i have no regrets atleast i know i dont hide secret..... if man love you, man will accept you of who you are and what you are.....
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It happened in another lifetime, to another person in another life. This is not who she is now.
If she feels she HAS to tell them, she can tell the truth; that what happened to her was so emotionally devastating that even the thought of it now brings such terrible pain. She wanted to tell him so many times but the very pain of remembering made it too difficult to utter the words. It is only with his total love and support that she feels she has the courage to open the door of the past abuse and move on as a complete, loved women.
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