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greenisle
18 yrs ago
If you had just found out that your very close friend has been with the ex who broke your heart... Should you cut the friend off?? And who's worse?? The frined who knows all the sobbing details of your sad story or the ex who clearly knows that friend is very dear and close to you and still go ahead to do it??
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Greenisle, that's an uncomfortable situation to be in. I could only hope you heard the news from the same friend who's now sleeping with your ex. I believe it's just common courtesy (RESPECT even) between friends to give the other a heads up especially with a situation as complicated and unexpected as this.
I mean, unless you still have feelings for your ex, you really shouldn't care who he hooks up with. Harboring hard feelings to an ex who broke your heart would only allow him (or the memory of him) have some sort of a control over your life when you should be out there enjoying life, meeting new people, hanging out with friends.
As for your friend, I think it could be awkward sometimes but depending on how close and how tested and proven your friendship has been, if you're really over your ex, you'll be fine with it after the shock of hearing the news!
Good luck to you!
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ldavy
18 yrs ago
I'm with Akoyan - this friend is no friend of yours greenisle.
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wise words, peechu.. I agree with what you said...
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Greenisle and Peechu, you are very kind. I admire that. I believe in good karma but in avoiding being a doormat. I am not sure I'd have an easy time being around the friend and ex, but I think in time, I'd have to make a decision about whether it was worth it to me to continue the friendship or not.
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When your two ex-s break it off she'll need a shoulder to cry on... LOL!
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notmeok, i know what you are saying... i guess she had made the decision that she values the possibility with my ex more than our friendship... So enough said...Doesn't matter what happen between them later on, they will still in my circle and i can't avoid that... I will probably stay "social" with her but there will be a lot of reservation
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i got your point justin... Honestly, i don't care that she want to go ahead with my ex, what bothers me is that she didn't bother to tell me...like peechu said, at least, as courtesy, give me a head up..
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your sloppy seconds comment makes me laugh!! thanks!!
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Haha! "sloppy seconds" that's hilarious Justin!
Good point Firstimemom, Greenisle, your friend will definitely need a shoulder to cry on when the two of them break up...
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