video?

my bf and i are both very sextual beings and we enjoy intimacy a lot, but recently he started having this idea of video ourselves while we were making out.


respects for people who DOES keep their LOVE videos, but i am clearly not a fan. after i turned him down a few times, he started to question "if i love him enough" "if i trust him enough". To me, i found it hard to enjoy the process facing a camera in front of my nake body. it was that simple. i've tried to talk to him ..nicely or not nicely. he still seemed all upset. (not that it would work of course..)



has any one encountered this type of things before? at this stage our relationship still seemed worthwhile so i would like keep it.


How do i get this idea through to his head??


thanks in advance xxx

tell him marry you first :)

thanks everybody for the kind advise.


we are no longer together now becuz i found out that he's not emotionally stable. this is NOT a blackmail of the person, i feel sorry, i hope he has a good life, this is a recent episode that happened, personally i think its psychotic, but maybe its for urself to judge:


we've been having a bit of communication problems becuz he is ultrasensitive to every word i said. to keep this brief, one day i went to his place, and we started talkin about his friend's problem.


he started crying all of the sudden, and said that actually he's begging me to leave him. (in the past few days..of making love, huggyhuggy and kissykissy..) i started to get upset, then he came up to me asking why i was crying, there's nobody who would love me this much, i will love you forever..


i said, well if you love me, why did you say somethin like that to hurt my feelings?


then he suddenly pointed at my noise and screamed "you selfish person!!"


@____@


i was in total shock, then i started packing my stuff ready to get out of there.


then he started crying, ..then again i got soften up and sat down, then same thing happened again. he got angry and slamped the table and swore at me. @__@ (it happened so fast i couldn't believe what i saw!)


i tried to calm him down by asking him to go and have a rest..


but he suddenly stared smiling! @__@ and said, lets drink! lets party! lets forget about what we just said and have fun!


@___@


thats when i thought.. sh*t, who am i dealing with?


so after tryin ways to find excuses to get out of there.. i tried to get away from his building as soon as possible, cutting every possible contact he has to access me.


i felt soo relieved in getting out, and i have nothing personal against him. I am just worried that who else might fall into the same situation like i experienced.


he has some profiles online, looking for girls with big breasts, he's around 35, outgoing, likes to invite himself to groups of people. when we go to new places, anywhere, he would try to stare at girls and try to make eyes contact so he could talk to them. (its different from being outgoing. its a bit.. desperate)


i want to warn everyone, especially girls, that please be cautious about who you meet! he hide it really well, i didn't realize it after knowing him for 2-3 months. (back to the topic, i am soo happy that we didn't have the disgusting videos done!) its just soo fxxking creepy imaginging about it. @__@


the guy is from HK, speaks good english. short, not very good looking, fat, but seems really really friendly.


careful.. really be careful. :(





i hope he doesn't come here and spot this message. maybe he'll start to revenge or something god knows what he'll do.


but, i thought i really should warn girls around him!! watch out!!!!!!!!!


:( (worried)

geez, thanks vanessa8, there are so many weridos in this world...just feeling lucky i did not meet too many so far!!


so he live in shanghai? i am in hong kong, so safe right?