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sfsr
18 yrs ago
just break up. anyone can tell me how to face tomorrow. don't want to have tomorrow. if i have choice, i prefer tomorrow never come
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Interesting tongue twister Aijin. Sfsr if it helps try taking a day at time. There is a long road ahead but they go fast if you believe that things happen for a reason. Let time go by and chin up.
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lulu
18 yrs ago
sfsr> not your boyfriend got depression, i think you got it. No shame to be drpessed, seek help.
Tomorrow will be another beautiful day, again, why sad over somebody's fault?
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Stand back, you couldn't see the whole picture if you get too close and focus at 1 point...don't put a full stop that early, you can't predict what happens the next sec, day, week. This door closes another open, enjoy what you have and you might find you missed somethings great...
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hey, "life goes on", well HIS certainly will then why not yours too?? I know it is easy to say, but often it is really as simple as it is, you will look back in just few days and realize you have made it.
It's hard, but you will, liked many problems you have had in you life so far. In addition, this could be a new (unknown) beginning of something fabulous!!
Cheers!!
When my father left my MOn after 30 yrs of marriage, she was devastated, but not she see as the best thing that ever happened to here.. I am not kidding.. So it is possible that something something positive can come out of this.
Indeed, if not, at least he is not the right one for you!
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Featherinwind,
What makes you say "he would very possibly contact you again"? Please don't give her false hopes.
And enough of the generalisations about men. There are decent and good ones around. I know cynicism is rife here, but it doesn't help other women face their own problems.
Sfsr,
Get out of the self-pity mode. Go out with your best friend and have a good cry. You have so many things to be thankful for if you just take time out to seek those things. Cheer up!
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"he would very possibly contact you again"?
i agree with featherwind !! there is a high chance he contact you again.
been there...just hope u not making the same mistake that i made.
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shaq
18 yrs ago
SFSR >> Tomorrow will definitely come and you see how beautiful it is, if you decide to live and to live it. As long as you see your happiness in someone (like a gf/bf), you won't see how beautiful the goodwill tomorrow brings.
It's all about choices. Make a good CHOICE; LIVE and enjoy today and tomorrow :D
ShaQ
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sfsr
18 yrs ago
Thanks you guys and ladies advice. I cried and cried for the whole night. No alcohol because I know it's not a good choice. Well, maybe I will lost of self-control and take alcohol to numb my feeling. Looking back, I know I made lots of mistake. I really hate myself. I thought I know how to deal with a relationship. I thought I know everything. But the truth is I am stupid, I am an idiot. I know nothing. All guys like soft women even they said they are not. They don't want strong character woman. If I don't change myself to be soft, no guys want to stay with me. I don't know how to cope with tonight. Maybe another crying night. Still, it will be good if someone told me that tomorrow I don't have to get up and I can sleep forever.
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sfsr, you alive is not for someone and it's for yourself. I can understand about your upset, but time will make thing better. Tomorrow will be another beautiful day again. Cheer up and stop thinking too much. Life still full of fun with love.
take care
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sfsr
18 yrs ago
just hanging, right I am hiding myself at home every day after work. Well, I look prefect when I go to work. No one knows what's happened to me. But after work, I go home straight away. Lie in bed and crying. I don't know how long it will last. No mood to do anything. Well, it doesn't matter as no matter what I don't think I have a future.
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sfsr
18 yrs ago
I finally went to bar and have 3 drinks. Well it total knock me down. I am useless, IF anyone of you can give me one reason why i stil have to be alive.
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sfsr
18 yrs ago
i am a victum. why me again an again. i guess i wam the wrorst woman in the world. No loveable, no soft. Horrible to all guys. I will die alosn.
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sfsr
18 yrs ago
hi onefreespirit, I know I should go out and do something. But I really not in a mood. Last night, I went to drink and pissed. Crying in a mess. Fear to be alone forever. Hate myself. Why me again ? I feel I screw up everything. If this can go back, I will treat him softly. Feel hopeless when I know that I will be alone for my rest of life. No one will share and support me. When I look at the couple on the street, I feel worst. I guess I am the worst and no deserve anyone to love and stay with me. I really have this feeling.
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lulu
18 yrs ago
You envy the couples in the street? They might be having a fight back home and someone might cry all night, someone might be thinking about other person while sleeping with her other half in bed, or someone tried to look at the other half's emails or mobiles!
They might also looking at you and envy you are so "free, single and beautiful"...so grow up.
Wanna cry? cry then but move on.
Life's aim is not only looking for other half or relationship, you never alone cos you have friends, family and many things to care about.
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