Posted by
Claire
18 yrs ago
Perhaps she didn't get as much money out of you as she had hoped, but she got some and now you are no longer of any use. If you want her back in your life, agree to pay for her friendship.
This happens too frequently to be of any surprise.
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Hey Mr Never, you didn't do anything wrong, you are just being too kind. Lending money to friends is a tough issue. Do you know this woman well enough to lend her money?? Besides, once you lend money to a friend means you might lost the money and that friend at the same time.
I had two experiences of such, the process of getting the money back was such a pain and of course friendship and trust were gone after she paid me back the money. But then i tried to be in her shoe, she wouldn't asked if not out of ultra desperation, and it was her who gave up the friendship. I've done my part so there nothing hurt about.
btw, do you like this girl??? do you want to be her ETC machine???
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so you see the real her. you can never read her mind, i know an apology or explaination would make you feel better, but if she doesn't feel any shame and give you more nasty sh*t, which way is more hurtful?
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You were fooled. There were warning signs but, as you weren't really looking for them, you missed them.
Text messages and emails were signs - it's easier to lie in a message than if speaking directly which also would have given you the chance to quiz her.
Needing the money for training for a job she has already done is a sign.
The "I'm lonely..." was one of the first.
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a.m.
18 yrs ago
Never,
Are you a guy and is she a Filipina? It sounds like you're so good to her and if she really is a friend its sad that she never bother to even say thank you or reply to your text. If she is in the Phillippines she will not call you back because it is tromendously expensive to call anywhere from the Phillipines.
If you were like gilfriend boyfriend relationship and you had sex with her when you are there then just think of it this way, (he used me so he must pay for it) borrowing is just a way of saying it. I strongly believe that money should not come in between friends.
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i was the emotion that hurts you, not the money right? think about you are so much better that her and be careful next time.
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Ed
18 yrs ago
As someone has just found out posting Racist Comments on this site = IMMEDATE BAN.
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