MEN and BOYS comment Preferably

hi Boys....


Just beeing Honest and have a gut when u give ur comments to me !! Please !!


I need Preferably MEN's opinion.. ladies ok too...


IF men...


1. have been through bad relationships e.g. engaged and it was called off, or been in long term relationship and it didnt work out


2. after all the fooling around and those bad relationship...met with a woman in not soo good place.


3.like the woman, and u ask her if she loves him.. but she just said she doesnt knw but she likes u.


4. men being overly possesive, checking her messages ( Phones ) doens allowed her to go out a.k.a party when he is not around


5. fight every now and then, through sms, break up and made up many times. either boy dumpped the woman or vice versa.


6. meet up once a week or once in two wk, and it getting worst to once a month. Reasons : Men been busy with work, have too many business travel thingy. ( a bit workaholic)


7. Seldom contact Women, and expect women to contact him every now and then... through sms,... even though men didnt reply it !! ( IDIOT )


8. Previously been introduced to his friends circle.. but not much. Seldom to go out for nice dinner, or hang out with friends anymore. mostly just stay at home. man cooks for woman.


9. after sex.. man will say he has to wake up early in the morning, and ask woman indirectly to leave...( correct me if i'm wrong boys ) well sometimes ask woman to stay over.


10. have big problem or big presentation or meeting wth big client always come to woman to find comfort and sex ( men do that rite ? )


11. Once told woman loved her.. ( was hesitate to give e same answer but a lil bit been pushed to say it ) but then the next day when met up.. man play song " Sumething stupid " if you know guys the song Sang by robbie williams and nicole kidman.


12. everytime woman try to clarify the situation whether in relationship or not, just to find where exaclty they stand.. man most of the times try to avoid. making lots of excuses e.g. am too tired to discuss, or i;m very busyy or just Disappears for few days...


Now BOYS and MEn..........


WHAT THE HECK GOES INTO YOUR BRAIN.... ???

tell me....what is this... ?? its happening to me

and i just dont get it.


IF its merely for SEX.... say It out loud....

if its for relationship say it...


I just find GUYS nowadays..... just dont have a freaking guts to say it....


if u were this MAN.... do you love this woman ?? or not ??? is this relationship or not ???


gimmie your feedback...

Its sex.

i'm not sure if it's sex or not... cuz i can't read their mind... but in the experience of my past relationship... guys realli DUN hv the guts to say anything... n they like to escape n hide for days... not showing up... cuz they rnt gd at dealing with their emotions n sh*ts like that... (oh n btw this is when talking abt at least some kind of a relationship... ) they like to hide from problems n just try to forget it but not solving it... n they dun like to make things clear the way that women love to... n they juz simple dun think as much as women do... like many ppl always say why women's thoughts r always so complicated...

alrite... hope i'm not offending any men here... the above is wut i drew from my last relationship together with my guys friends (haha... a lot of consultations...)

guys... speak up n let us kno wut's in ur mind!!

Sorry hon, but it was just sex. If you man display any of the symptoms listed above, it is either because he was never serious, never plan to be serious or not in love with you anymore. Unless you enjoy being taken granted of, worst being taken advantage of, please move on. I assume this is not the way you expected to be treated, well then stop taking his sh*t. You deserve more than that.

any way you look at it, its hard to think he cherishes you

well Jr. Me..


I had the same thingy thing with MAN... just wanna lte u knw... u;re not alone.

Well Guys... Just say what u have to say...

Hi all...Thkz guys for replying this. really appreciate this.


Royster Doyster. I'M NOT A " HIGH MAITANANCE " WOMAN !!! absolutely not.

NAG >>> Maybe.. if you guys see it that way....

i just ask to spend more time together...try to get to know each other better,,,...

I knw my client almost inside out compare to HIM....He knows me a lil bit more than i know him...

Is it A NAG... if i ask to spend time a lil bit more.. ?

Meeting, work and work.. i can understand that... but if u really like someone dont u think u'e able to squeeze time for them.. ?? well am telling this coz im a woman... i dont knw how u guys see this...

tell me..


>>> i need clarification from himtoo..u know.. if this things only for Sex than i dont have to put my feelings into this things....and see it as physical things....


But everytime.. i try to bring this things up...either he will

avoiding me, ignore and later gimmie reasons he was busy, and disappear few days or weeks....


I called him NAMEs and he called Me NAMEs too ..but when we get back together ..as if nothing ever happen.


And He keep asking me if i ever go out with other guy....!!

and if i get message or call he would be acting like insecure MAn... telling me that it prob. my bfsss...


what the heck is this ???

if its only sex... y he shld be bother with this, and if he loves me. y he treat me like this ....

tell me GUYS......!!

Well said MPL!

Phew.. First of all am not that conservatives... if someone give me more.. i give them even more.

if the guy.. get along with me but doesnt want to have relationship a.k.a love relationship. but the sex is SUper GReat than yes.. i would consider very much about being SEX partner only. at least i knw where i heading to and what things im into and what i'm doing.... DARN man!!!

MPL:--- too bad there are not much guys in this world who want to cmmt themselves to sumone....


----i dont get it---y he shld act like he cares abt me one time and push me away....but expect me not to be with someone elses.


arghhhhhhhhhhh !!!!!!!! MEN-- u guys are bloody complicated!!

Thanks -- mpl ..


Royster Doyster ---- am not asking him to marry me. and even if he doesnt want to commit. please do have a gut to tell that he doesnt want to have further than that , at least......

and stop acting like really care... *** absolutely BULL **


COWARD....CHICKEN shoot....

I can just say..not every man is like that. But sad to say..majority is like that. I am a man and I can say I don't do those things to my love one.

darn man....

yeah... i guess.....

i cant let go... coz i thought he is a good man ! but now... ( its sad but true.. like metalica said)

yeah.. but you guys give me a good point. I mean , come on.... i want to see it from men point of view. if you see it tht way... what else could it be... ???

I'm not Men for sure.... thats y i want to see it from you all.

ButterFree>---- I"M A WOMAn , hhahhaha am i sound like a man or half a man to you ??? ahahha am i write like one ??? :P

Well yes !!! U guys are complicated creatures... i always heard men say Woman are complicated.. but in fact u are too.

I do realize i'm making excuses for him...now. well it takes 2 years for me to realize that.... Sad. ! and Its not abt who dump first. but if i have feelings for someone, i tend to be persistent and will fight for it. it just so unfortunate for me, fighting something myself , and fighting for nothing. at the end I just found a high wall and empty space.

Very Sad but true like metalica said. Nifty >> yes it is a harsh reality,I'm absof*ckinglutely tired and had enuf. Well been saying this for the past 2 years. i guess I am an absolutely A FOOL when it comes to this one. cheers

Sorry to say this is typical male behaviour, he needs something (sex attention) but doesn't see you as a person he wants to stick with or be seen in public with too much.


He feels not really comfortable coz he realises its a bad thing to do, but his hormones and the easiness with which he gets what he wants compell him to return. He will keep on returning untill either you are fed up and put him at the door with the rest of the garbage or he finds someone else and will ignore any and all of your calls.

mpl....i dont know what to say.. not all men are idiots, but most of you all. Lol. anyway..Fyi , i have decided to walk away. I had enuf.. and honestly fed up..and I had ebuf trying too. Well it really hard boys...darn man !!arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. anyway. really appreciate all of your replies. You all behave lol. Cheers.