Going bi = Permission to cheat?

Spent last night watching a documentary about married couples going to a bisexual-themed weekend getaway, where its only purpose is for bi-curious/bisexual wives to get together with other women. The husbands who tag along, according to the "rules" set by owners of the tour, are not permitted to do anything but watch as their wives engage in sexual activities with other women.


During an interview one of the married women admitted to falling in love with a member of the same sex after joining the tour for the 5th time, and her husband was apparently fine with it. "It's whatever makes her happy!" said the husband.


Here's what I don't understand (let's say for argument's sake that the husband will never EVER get a threesome out of all this)...why is it okay for these women to cheat just because they're doing it with women? I understand that to most men, there's nothing better than girl-on-girl action, and that seeing their wives "doing things" with a woman is obviously a LOT less threatening than a man. But I must go back to the fact that they ARE cheating! They are still dodgy! Why is it okay? And what if, after a period of time, your no-longer-curious wife tells you she is officially bisexual and plans on pursuing relationships with other women while married to you?


So is cheating okay as long as it happens to be yout other half's ultimate fantasy? What do you think?

Did you see where this place was? If so let me know it sounds great.

None> For more info on the tour you can go to http://www.wildwomenvacations.com/.