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Glowac106
18 yrs ago
Met a guy through this website and we have been out for few times. He seems like interested in me. We do hold hands but i didnt ask him is this mean anything to him.
He also bring me to his friends gathering and we act like couple but no kissing yet. He do call me or sms me daily we talk about eachother's work and life.
Is he serious! should i ask him directly?
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I could be worn but I am guessing you are Chinese and he isn't. But that isn't important.
When I (British), first started dating my wife (Chinese), I wasn't sure what the rules were for proper behaviour in China. So I kinda had to explain this and ask 'what am I allowed to do?'. I know it sounds lame.
Perhaps he doesn't know what he is allowed to do, and is too shy to ask.
Or perhaps he isn't that serious.
So you ask.
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Why over-analyze? Go with the flow and enjoy!
Holding hands and being introduced to friends are not guarantees that he is serious. He likes you, but at the moment, let it sit there. You're both in the getting-to-know-you stage, and you might scare him away if you ask directly if he's serious. Chill :)
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I think he is a nice guy, you can give both some more time to get to know eachother or you can try Electrode's advise give him a big kiss. see what happen.
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My guess is that he probably likes you more than you think! That is why he is taking it so slow, in oreder to do everything right. If you were less important to him, then maybe he could risk jumping right in.
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good to have suggestions.
Bingo tigerbay i am chinese and he is Aussie.
meeting him again tonight, i betta choose a place with nice atmosphere and do what electrode advised. See what happen..if positive then i will ask him..
How does it sounds???
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This is a very sweet thread and reading about such things reminds me that there are still considerate/caring/romantic people left in the world.
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trix
18 yrs ago
Holding hands is just an expression of interest. It's a loong looong looooong way from getting anywhere near serious. Chill out and enjoy.
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trix
18 yrs ago
Good grief... what kind of relationship is one in which you don't know whether the guy you've had sex with will hold hands with you afterwards?! Maybe you should hold off sex till your relationship is more stable. Saves you a lot of problems later on.
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trix
18 yrs ago
If you want to sleep with the guy before holding hands, you only have yourself to blame if you're confused later.
chat noir, are you having a bad day? I cannot help but be astounded by your postings today!
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trix
18 yrs ago
ok good to know you don't get yourself into such crazy situations.
Assuming this is a normal courtship (i.e. holding hands before sex), this is just the first step towards emotional intimacy. There're so many other steps to go and asking questions is too premature and pressurising. Best to just go with the flow or you'd just scare the guy off. My two cents.
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He kissed me lastnight, after a nice dinner, a few drinks, when he walk me home he kissed me and i want to ask him but my words just couldnt come out. So i guess will take it naturally not to ask anything before go to further step.
I post this is for advise and suggestions not mean to let him know, properly same kind of situations happens anytime and anywhere and he told me he never come to this forum...(hope he told the true)
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Finally it didnt work out. Too bad but never give up.
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Nope. Never give up.
I just read through this thread. For future desired kisses, I have a new theory that going for walks is best - someone is gonna turn and make a move. My favorite kiss was on a beach...but the Peak might work.
So what's all your takes on the best places to kiss in Hong Kong?
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seductive beach covered with moonlight kissing with the accompany of sea breeze and sound of crashing waves... ohh i missed that
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Luckily there are a number of beaches in HK. There HAVE to be other romantic spots!
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Walk down the path from the peak is a great spot. Walk along the TST or Wanchai waterfront.
Put your head on his shoulder in the cinema.
Hold hands in a taxi, and allow your clenched hands to rest on your thigh.
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