Posted by
balzac
18 yrs ago
you did the right thing-pat on the back girl.
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Ballerina, what you did was the best that you can do in that circumstances and also the fact that he is in a relationship. Think of about it, you don't want to get too romantically involved with a guy who french kiss a woman while his gf is in the other side of the world. That shows his true colors doesnt it?
So, You've done the right thing, girl.
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You started this thread wondering whether you had done any damage to your 'friendship', but after reading your other posts, it now seems you are more worried whether you have lost him by letting him down in the hotel room, as you now see him as ideal husband matierial and maybe are secretly holding some hope that you could develop something someday by keeping the friendship alive..
Sorry for being harsh but FRIENDSHIP?? you say you haven't contacted each other after he saw you with another guy in a taxi, and are only hooked up recently because of his visit. Sounds to me he's more into an easy sh*g than keeping you as a long term friend? What kind of friend tells you he's happy with his new life new girlfriend one minute and tries to get into your pants the next?
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Oh and if he went silent after seeing you with another guy in a taxi, it probably is not because he was hurt or held back whatsoever, it could simply mean he wasn't that into you and it wasn't worth the trouble. Men love competition I can tell you.
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Stay cool gal. If you didn't give a sh*t what you had done with him you wouldn't have started the thread in the first place no? That's water under the bridge and stop crying over spilt milk hon..
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Is he worried about the fact that he may have insulted your 'womanhood' by expecting anything at all from you? I think not.
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Why is it wrong for her to have been kissing him? Why does that mean she wants something more? That is like saying that someone who was raped was asking for it.. Anyways, I'm sure he can deal with it. If his manhood was insulted everytime a girl didnt sleep with him he wouldn't be a very mentally stable guy.
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It is quite clear that Ballerina here just want some TLC, and frankly it could happen to any guy at the right moment. It is not a selfish act, but nevertheless, a display of lost and confused.
Ain't we all!
But honestly, you shouldnt goto his hotel. It's a "green light" for we men.
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But why should it be? Until the woman says ok 'lets do it' or actually does it or vice versa...I don't think that a man should assume anything..and as a result won't have his 'manhood' insulted. I think what she did is completely acceptable..and if it were the other way around it would be as well.
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hongkonglady,
Yes, it's never a good idea to assume anything out of thin air, but if you "think" like a guy, the picture is right infront of you.
Also, it has nothing to do with guys think with their dxxk coz that's just bias.
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i haven't read this thread - but i think this thread should have been titled - did i do his relationship/current girlfriend any harm?
insult his manhood??!!!!!!!! my foot. Who gives half a sh!t? really
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Well manhood is another name for a guy's d!@k after all.
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I think she meant his pride as a man.
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Well was being sarcastic and thought she was too.After all, you don't insult someone's womanhood you insult her pride so play on words.You get all hot and bothered with some guy in his hotel room then sayonara well that's just life if the guy said no she would be a martyr but because she said no the guy has his manhood insulted?Sheesh he should go back to his life and forget 'one more shag for old time's sake.He still oviously has some feelings and she doesn't so if at least it was an 'insult' not an 'assult' on his manhoood.
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I don't think you insult him.I did stupid thing what make me feel regreted.If you don't see any future about both of you.Don't contribute yourself to him.If you didn't refuse which only make him feel you are cheap and easy.So you did a very correct thing!Congrats!!
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Well I dont think what she did was correct, some times it is better just to get it over and done with and get it out of your system, having gone up to his room and french kissed and then done a runner I am sure the sexual tension from his side is now 10x what it ever was before.
Fionaaxin given the way it was described no guy is going to consider a girl cheap and easy in this situation, just that 2 people feel passionatley about each other and can express that even though recognising it is has no future.
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