We've been together for 6 months now. He's from HK, I'm a BBC. I thought he was the perfect guy for me; so sweet, so caring, so adorable. He would even skip guys nights out to be with me, and if he went out, he would take me with him. We would be together almost 24/7.
One day he asked me to get him something out of his wallet and I found out that he has bought a necklace the day I went on business trip. I thought, maybe its a present for our 6 months anniversary...but nothing. So it should be my christmas present then...
When I realized that this necklace wasnt meant for me this morning, it felt like someone has stabbed me in my heart. I saw a message with "thank you so much for the pretty necklace" that was displayed on his mobile.
What does he wants from me? Why bother talking about the future when I can't see any future when there is another woman in our lives? What does she wants from him when she knows she cant have him completely? What should I do?
So many questions, so little answers...
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Ok.....it's totally understandable how it's easy to jump to conclusions about who the necklace was for; however if you say he is from HK, then this indicated to me that he probably has family here. Call me totally naive, but don't rule out that it could have been for his Mum or sister??? Just check out all possibilities before you fly off the handle with him.
Good luck, Angel.
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I'm practically living with his family under one roof.
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Thank you all for your replies.
Raincatcher: no, I dont know who sent the message
I'm just trying to avoid him now, don't want to hear his voice, don't want to see him
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Angel, it could be a perfectly good explanation. Ask him. If he makes up a story, you'll be able to tell.
I have a female best friend and an ex who I'm buying nice gifts for this Christmas. I'm not announcing to my girlfriend that I'm giving a gift to my ex (it's just a friendship gift), but if she finds out, I'd rather she ask than jump to conclusions.
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I'll ask him tonight...will let you know his reply
Thanks guys
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I've been hiding, pretending I haven't seen anything and that everything is ok between us...I'm still thinking about it from time to time and if I should confront him, but I'm just too weak I guess
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Don't hide!Don't pretend!Ask him!If he just fool around you.Feed him back!Don't be so weak!
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