Posted by
dude71
18 yrs ago
How long you knew each other, if it was just few months, guess he should be attached or in relationship with other gal....
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I think he is trying to say "I quite like you but
not so much that im willing to settle down for you."
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Not much to go with... there could be a million different reasons from the simple to the profound.
Simple... he's gay.
Profound... he truly loves you but he knows in his heart of hearts that your love cannot last because there is something between you that will but wither over time, and he doesn't want to bear the pain when the time comes to say goodbye.
;)
Blah.
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This is a very typical mens answer.Obviously he want to keep someone there for him when he feel lonely or bored.He don't love you,he just love to have someone always there for him.I've heard this so many times from all of my friends!
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Hi Chat,
I am sorry to hear you are hurting; however I can tell you that guys have a tendency to do exactly what has happenend to you. I have had cases in my life too, and I know it really really hurts and you desperately can't understand why he is doing it. I have mentioned in a few of my posts my experience with a married man (he was divorcing though, but had 3 kids). We loved each other and then he told me that we would settle down etc. Then one day he turned around without any explanation and said that we couldn't be together. It hurt SO SO SO much, but he said he had to give everything to his kids.
In other cases, I've had guys who have said they love me but they can't give me "all they want to give me". I think this pretty much meant that they wanted to settle down or be able to support me in everything as a couple, but didn't have the finances to do so.
Sometimes when guys do this kind of thing they do it because they love you so much that they don't want to "drag you through the dirt" so to speak. If they feel that there is a hard period for them coming up or that it wont work out right now, this is thier way of saying it.
It's totally heartbreaking, hun, I know.
I really hope you are ok.
xox
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It better to ask him directly what's the problem.
Only he know the best what is preventing him to promise.You can tell whether he is telling the truth or not.Unless he is those kind who had won an oscar in best actor.
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So poorman, that what happened to you?
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He wants pure friendship or he's gay. You should be happy coz you've found a good friend. It's normal that sometimes you like very much this person but it can only stretches to best friend and not bf. It happens to me twice, hehe.....
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trix
18 yrs ago
He likes you but you are not The One for him. Move on.
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