Should I feel this?

Men get into a realtionship hoping the woman will never change and stay just the way they were when they met ... That never happens


Women get into a realtionship seeing the flaws of a man hoping that he will change... That ALSO never happens


This is reality that we all have to learn to accept.


It is also through this acceptance that we cannot change what happened in the past that we can start to forgive.

Let it go. You think a leopard can change its spots? Not to say your partner is not a good person but incompatibility, even after years of togetherness still happens.


Best to let him go and let yourself go too. No point of holding onto something that worth so much less that it was once before. No matter, you guys can still be 'together' as friends and parents to your children. Divorced is not the end of parenting and relationship. You both have to adjust to being together and there for your children as their guardian but you both have a seperate life outside this committment.


Stop hating your decision about being honest to him. You did the right thing cause he was abit of a coward not doing it first.


Good luck!

You decided to splip up with him and now you feel betrayed ?! .....weird


I think the problem is YOU not HIM.


Never think you can change a man