I met a guy at work who is very charming and I like him being very nice to other people at work too. In the beginning, I didn’t think that he would notice me but he did. He tried hard talking to me whenever he could and did take a good care of me while at work. However, he let all these happened secretly. He has left HK now as he is not based here. I told him that I would miss him but he messaged me and said I shouldn’t miss him or it will spoil our adventure but he also told me not to forget that he’s coming back. Do you think that he is just a playful guy who is successful at work, travels a lot and just looks for a local pretty girl in every single city he goes? The last night we had a drink together with other overseas colleague and I noticed that he did kept sending and checking his cell phone for text messages. I am a bit confused…
i'm sensing some classic signs of players...don't take him seriously. if he continues to woo you when he returns you can give him a chance, assuming you don't have a bf yet by then, but you should always keep your eyes open and keep it real, ie the messages and how much time he's actually spening in hk...girls like you and me tend to turn really stupid in face of a possibility of a relationship.
Dear, you can keep him in the list but please don't be too seriously. Just someone you can sms when you are bored.
I think I will not text him proactively…it’s difficult for me to keep contacting one person but trying to keep distance from him at the same time.
I was hoping that he will message me but it seems that he is not going to do so.
Gee... moominvalley, we are in the same boat... have been meeting these types of "players" recently. Don't know what type of jinx I have. Where are all the good and honest men?
lazy cat, I'm still around! you know how to reach me! :p
And back onto the subject matter in hand, Guys do it because they know they can get away with it. I don't condone it and it gives us nice guys a bad name.
He just sent me an email...he once said that he wont use company email address for personal commnunications...he said he will sms me and he misses me...am really very confused.
Where he is? his home country? If so, I'd guess he will come to Hong Kong so he would like to hold you ahead so that he won't feel boring when he is working here..
he is based in other country but yes he would come to hong kong sometimes. not sure how often though...
Sorry my presumption is more or less to tell you the true, wonder no one would like to keep the relationship without any perspectives?
Yes- he is a player. You are being contacted to fill in his time.
Please dont start thinking-Oh maybe I am THE girl who will turn him from player to a one woman man. Very unlikely.
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