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again
18 yrs ago
Hate it but it happened!!!!!
don't know y is it so hard to let it go sometimes, just this feeling when u know its over and u r still believing that it might work, or is it something that u want to happen?!!! ur mind tells u its over but heart hopes for something else? and not sure how to act to make it work! should u do the first move or wait and c...
Anyway just feeling a bit sad...
Have a nice weekend everyone!!!!
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Don't worry.... you're not alone. I feel the same way!
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That feeling is so terrible to bear... It's been a month and it lingers...
You are right, Tidings 2... The thought of starting all over again is so a drag...
All the best to us feeling the same way... Cheers...
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Every second chance begins with a first step.
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Understand it's hard but look at your past relationship from the positive side: what you've learned and how you've grown to be stronger. It's part of the grownth pain and luckily we all get over it eventually.
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TIME will heal, my dear friends :)
It's hard I know but we must take care of ourselves: pick ourselves up; move on and think positive and keep smiling.
Cheers :)
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It is hard to let go. Why? Coz we are only human with feelings. Best to let go, take the opportunity to do something different for a change(I got a skinhead for the very first time.) Meet up with some old friends....etc.
Life goes on!
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Best is to get on with your life. Its ok to moan but do not let it pull you down for too long. Have to tell yourself that life goes on. Be positive.
Remember that you are not alone. And you are not the only one.
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Well...yeah!!
am sure everybody experienced this
at least once or twice in their lifetime.
I know , it's painful but eventually you'll get over it, that's for sure...and life goes on...
Cheer up!!!
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As long as you have put in your best to make it work, you have lived it up to yourself.
Had tried my very best too and it failed. But at least I know I tried. Sometimes, knowing that is good enough because if things are not meant to be, then there is no point forcing. Something better will follow because things happen for a reason.
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Aggie
18 yrs ago
i feel the same too....my past relationship been 20 years from my junior high....I think I can fit in the new relationship at first...but some times....I'm still in pain....we'd been separated for almost 2 years....but the feeling some times pop up and make me very very sad...and finally, I called him and told him that I cannot bear the feeling being separated with him...and he told me to move on even though it's hard...but it's the reality that we should do what we should do and move on....to make our life easier (in fact, i dun want things easier...if we both love each other, there must be something to struggle because everyone wants your partner be perfectly filled your gap) anyway, it's a release by having his words to clear the things up that I shall not hope for something else....if this is possible, try to talk to your ex and u may able to have some inspiration...
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Done the whole get over it bit,cut ties, hibernated, made over and came out a year later to start afresh or so I thought !! It's painful cuz you start comparing at least I did.
Agree totally with freshjive's concept.
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again
18 yrs ago
Wow, cant believe it was so many days ago and still hurts, lol?! Thought wouldnt last for sooo long!!
How can u want to be with someone sooooo much but just when time comes and there is a chance to take it somehow u just turn it off and then regret and there is no way turning bk... hate it but happens
again and again!!
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what is your story, again??
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Hey, when it's over it's over. Don't fixate on what's gone, move on!
You should be looking out for your first rebound victim by now!
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again
18 yrs ago
Ah story is that met a really a nice guy and everything was great until i started thinking too much, as i was hurt really badly a year ago, and was hard to talk to him about it, as i seemed ok wiht that and then when i got nervous did some stupid things and cant let it go, i mean i know i should be over it and soooooo, but so hard not to let him know what was wrong and why did i act the way i did, he tried to make it work, but at that time lots of things happened that i couldnt meet him when he was asking me to, and it ended and there is no way bk.. i got over such a pain before but this time its even harder and it shouldnt be like that, friends are saying after what ive been through before it should be easier to find a way to move on, but its not.... and im confused....
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You are saying you really like someone, he really likes you, but because of past pain you won't let him get close? My gosh, girl, don't let ghosts from the past destroy your present life! Tell this guy how you feel about him! Let him decide if it's too late as far as he's concerned! If he's willing to try and make a go of it, figure out some way to deal with the past ghosts, get courage, and move ahead with living in the present! In order for you to have future happiness, you MUST find some way to put the painful past behind you and make yourself open to the present and future possibilities!
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again
18 yrs ago
Ahhhhh!!
He did like me i guess but its been a while now and im sure he doesn't feel the same way now.... Too late.... so guess its kind of past again and now i need to find strength to move on...
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I don't think one should just let something good pass you by.
There is no such thing as "past is past" if you can't make it your past.
It all depends on the situation. If the guy is available and you like him so much and cannot get over him, do give it a try, again. I would.
The point is how'll you ever know whether he likes you or not if you don't take this second chance and take a step towards it??
There is no such thing as "too late". It is not easy to find someone you like and love to let them just go away without atleast trying.
Again, give it a try, is my advise. It'll also give you a clear situation. If he doesn't like you any more, you HAVE to get over him.
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Yeah if you feel for him still then go for it girl, nothing to lose have you?!
Instead of procratinating and feeling bad for not actioning, why not just give him a call and tell him how you feel. It's now or never because the longer you leave it the harder it will be to get it all back.
But hey, this is advice from someone who isn't very good at keeping her man! Hee hee
Joke aside, I do believe that we have to go do ourselves justice and be truthful to our feelings, so if you want him - try again.
If he rejects you then pick yourself up (which is a challenge) If he rejects you, you will be soooo hurt but at least you know he is no longer an option and you will find it easier to heal and move forward.
To me, things can be wrapped up if you know they can go no further, and then everyone can move on, don't waste time, live your life! Do what you need to do to ease your feelings.
Good luck!
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I've to admit too that I am also not a good "man-keeper"! ;-)
But maybe that is why I know how it feels to lose a guy you love too much to forget.
Again, give it a try... go take that step! Don't let pride or logic interfere with matters of the heart. Not worth it!
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again
18 yrs ago
LOL!
yeah, guess i just suck in relationships.. real looser!
He did contact me and i blew it off again and this time for ever!!!
And zonked, wish i read again ur post before i made a move! Don't let pride or logic interfere with matters of the heart!
I didnt really expect that he would call and somehow manged to blew it off....
by mistrust and doubts...
i guess i just had to listened to my heart, brain and advice that others give might sound logical but deep in ur heart u know better than anyone else whats the right thing for u to do..
Well its done now and hope next time wont make the same mistakes again...
But does kind of hurt... wish was some kind of way to forget about it soon....
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"Don't let pride or logic interfere with matters of the heart!" Easier said then done. Only if things were that simple.
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dont cry over spilled milk.. better one will come on your way soon.. i sympathize with you cos i'm in the same situation as yours but i'm doing my best to survive..be strong...
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again
18 yrs ago
yeah, i know trying my best to be strong but its really hard and painful!
Not sure which one hurts more that i made too many mistakes or that it ended... just never thought i would be feeling this way and after what ive been trough before, they say pain helps u to grow stronger but in my case i became weaker...
Anyway, need to find a way to forget about everything i guess!
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I do the same thing. A clean cut is best.
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