human relationship is that vulnerable?? --Trieste2's story



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Posted by ji8977 17 yrs ago
You guys still have feeling for each other but prefer to deny it. You guys unconciously hope it keeps the old days if you stay good friends. But he realized it was not true. He had already lost you and so terrible that he still got some feelings!!!!He needs to cut it now cause for love feeling, it is either "yes" or "no".


I think the best way is to forget him right now. Move on with your life. Some time later, one year or two, when he can figure out what is his feeling for you and what he wants to do about it, he will come back to you. It might happen that you two cut off with each other.


Let time tells. Especially for men, they are very stubborn, they may need a whole century to figure out they actually love you or not.


For referrence: spread the news that you are seriously ill and may not live through this year...and when he comes over......blablabla:-)(ok...it only can be applied if you are sure you want to be with him)

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COMMENTS
Peet 17 yrs ago
huh......and I thought that this sort of thing only happens in Japanese TV dramas....go figure...

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balzac 17 yrs ago
Agree with JC. email him or contact him. Looks like he's calmed down a bit.

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ji8977 17 yrs ago
@JC


You are skipping one thing: They both required the treatment as gf and bf when they are actually not.


She felt hurt by he being indifferent in the email. He became distant cause he didn't like her seeing another guy in real.

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momo8.. 17 yrs ago
Coco you and Trieste could team up for a drama.Wow.I'm beginning to think these threads have the makings of a good series.

Agree you should make contact with the guy and explain the situation.Communication is the key to everything and losing a good friend because of lack of communication is very sad indeed.If you value the frienship you must do this.

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momo8.. 17 yrs ago
Yes you should.Good friendships are like diamonds on a beach...hard to find.Both you and Trieste should study a lesson here.You know how to get the guy back so don't waste time thinking about it just do it.

Life is drama but a lot of it is caused by misguided individuals acting in unusual circumstances.Life is 10% events and 90% your reaction to these which determines the outcome in any given situation.Saying something is beyond your control is crap.

At least get back to communicating with him so you can see if the friendship is worth persuing or not.

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