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HK01
17 yrs ago
I agree with JWM, his personal finances are his business. If she were a threat to your relationship, that would be different. Are you insecure about them being in touch with one another? I know from personal expereince it is a real hassle changing finance people, of course depending on how much he has invested. It sounds to me like you have more of a proplem with him seeing his ex, in any capacity. Tough call, but I would say it's his decision and if you have asked him to change firms and he said no, well, sounds to me like you might have an indication of where the future is headed
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HK01
17 yrs ago
you should ask him that, not us
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HK01
17 yrs ago
I guess the problem is you want him to switch, mostly because she is his EX, and well, frankly, that's sometimes not enough and can be construed as rather imature and insecure
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HK01
17 yrs ago
If your boyfriend is that insensitive to your needs and feels now, where is this all leading? Do you think this is a long term relationship?
Why do you discount a mans opinion on this, because it is so black and white, because, maybe it is just that simple, unless there is something byou are not telling that would enlihten the situation a bit
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HK01
17 yrs ago
Well, I don't know, I am a female, but, if my husband had a female "ex" doctor as his physician, I would be OK with it.
You also mentioned in your original post that she did his investment firms finances, not his personal, but then a few responses up, you mentioned you do not have an issue if they are friends, but he should not have access to his personal finances??? Which is it, or is it really her being the picture al all
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HK01
17 yrs ago
I am sorry you do not like my opinions, and I am sorry you are going through this, but please, if you post looking for opinions, don't shoot the messenger when you do not like what is in the bag. Good luck, I hope your b/f comes to respect you a bit more than he does right now
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Flashback... a little insensitive! Kaileybum you have a right to feel a little insecure. You need to discuss this with your boyfriend. If he is loving and understanding, he should be able to assure you that this is purely a business transaction.
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Ed
17 yrs ago
Couple of banned accounts here... see the rules
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