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09876
17 yrs ago
What should a woman do... when her husband has no interest in her sexually?? The only time they had sex is when he wanted kids and tried to get her pregnant. After two kids he has not touched her. And she is above average looking gal.....could the guy be gay.....and it is a marriage of convenience...The obvious answer is she should leave him....but there are two little kids involved. What are your thoughts????? Need good advice to help this woman.......Thanks
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Well.... that's a million dollar question : leave the marriage or not, that too for lack of sex?
As many have written here in many different posts -- it is not just for sex that you stay in the marriage.
Personally -- I did leave.
Even if kids a are involved. Leaving does not mean the father absolves himself of all responsibility towards the kids. If you're unhappy, or just putting up a happy face for the world, then leave. But leave wisely. Plan everything for your kids. Let it be very clear to the dad that he has to take care of them -- physically, emotionally and financially.
Sex definitely is a major part of marriage, and if you cannot have a fulfilling life without it, it is one of the major reasons to change the situation.
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09876
17 yrs ago
I will clarify few things.....he has never been interested in her sexually...even prior to marriage....but somehow she hoped things would change. He doesn't like to talk about his lack of interest in her sexually.....and his reply usually is that he doesn't need sex as much as other guys and there is more to a relationship than sex. That is why i think he may be gay....he might be getting a bit on the side..
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09876
17 yrs ago
yes it is a close friend....I am trying her to help her.....
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She should be persistent and stick with him and not go through such a bad and shameful act of a divorce.
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09876
17 yrs ago
Thanks for your comments.....personally I don't agree with your comments Robbie2007. I don't think she should suffer in silence. Life is short and she should make the most of it. She lacks inner strength to move on....I pray she finds her strength soooooon. Thankyou
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