Posted by
freedom
17 yrs ago
recently I find many women around,young or mid-ages are sad,unhappy with the bf/husband who treats them not so nicely.(no care,have an affir..)
but it seems many women chose to tollerate or go on with it.
would it be better to be at least with someone than be alone?
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they might say they are not happy, but the bf/hudsband must make them feel special in a certain way.
It's not only about happiness, it's about being needed, or feeling special, there are many many possibilities.
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to Justin Credible, I find u always got the point. u r already my idle ^^
I dunt know about western women.I just feel confused and sad while seeing so many women choose to settle like this. in China,it seems it's the world of men.
for women,u got to have urself married or at least with someone under one certain age. even the other one betraied,many women seemed devastated if she got to lose him and try every means to keep him,keep the marriage or relationship,especially mid-aged women.
I just see the weakness and even was told that was meant to be. while aging,women become weaker and less valuable in the society. it seems better to have someone in ur life ,rather than be alone and be pitied by others..
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to JC,I will always remember what u r saying.do appreciate that.
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happiness is a state of mind...
it does not matter whether with or without someone...
better to be alone and unhappy....as u can always change... than be unhappy with someone who you cannot, or who will not, change...
just my opinion..of course..
as for weakness that is all relative....plus it could depend on your cultural situation too..
asia is a male dominated, or so they think, continent.
however if it was not for the smart hard working woman it would not be the vibrant exciting place it is...
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when I was single (almost 8 yrs) I cried sometimes when feeling lonely.
when I was with the guy who I just broke up. I cried every now and than coz the relationship wasn't going anywhere.
When I left him I didn't drop a tear.
guess dealing with loneliness is easier than trap into a hopeless relationship
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Hi All,
I left singapore to work in shenzhen. The reason i left was due to a broken relationship.
It's too painful to stay there so I decided to take up a job offer in shenzhen.
6 mths passed, I enjoyed spending my weekends in HK, watching a movie, shopping..eating my fav. dessert alone. I rather i feel lonely than to be hurt...
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