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concor1
17 yrs ago
i know a guy for quite some time. mostly we work together, he is a photographer so many times he send me sms about which event he going to such as parties in bars/clubs or homeparty. i went once and not like it. he still keep sending such messages such as: to all my friends blah blah..so i just dont think that kind of sms is a invite, rather spam promoting events, lol.
but yesterday he told me that he tried to be friendly by sending out those sms, and received no reaction.
i did not reply to those sms, nor showing up in those events. what do you think?
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if you are not interested, tell him. a gf of mine did that and i told her very directly to stop, and she did, it's that simple ;)
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do you think those sms are invites like he claimed?
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I think you're putting WAY too much energy into this. If you're not into him, and have no interest in going to his events/parties or whatever, who cares what he says or thinks. Just don't reply and if it annoys you, tell him to take you off his sms list. Simple!
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Kailey is absolutely right. IF you're not interested in him, why are you asking questions about him.
Asking questions about him makes me think you're completely interested.
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if he likes you, he may be shy to call. maybe sms's are easier for him than calling. do youthink he's inviting everyone? do you know him well? why not go out and see if you like each other?he may not want to come on strong since you still have to work together. he may not know if you are interested romantically. take a chance!
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we dont work together anymore. i know he's inviting everyone. he push the send to all button too much i think. just he said that he invited me a few times and i didnt show up. what do guys think? i never took it as an invite.
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maxis
17 yrs ago
Its rubbish - he's just saying it. It was a "perhaps" invite but not very personal.
Ignoring spam is not rejection of an invitation.
He is just an attention seeker, and saying that to guilt you. or pretend he was intersted but now is not - who knows, but spamming people about waht parties yo are going to and making open invitations like that (if in fact they even are) sounds rather cretin-like. Be glad you dont work with him any longer and ask him to remove your number from his spam-list.
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Seriously concor1, stop asking what other ppl think, it's irrelevant. You obviously have some level of interest towards this guy, otherwise you wouldn't be reading so much into his lame, attention seeking sms's. Put yourself out of your misery, confront him either way and either get yourself a date with him, or tell him to take you off his sms list and put your energy to better use!
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sometimes an individual plant spreads seeds ...if your garden doesn't wish to sustain or promote this seed , then you don't need to waste time and worry. So at this time the seeds he is attempting to plant get no purchase in your garden.
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