Cheating – is it really sooo bad?

Easier said than done.

How about putting yourself in the cheated side? How about if your hubby comes home and kisses you and you know for a fact his mouth has been in another woman?


I have never being married, because in my opinion a marriage is both a legal and a moral contract, and cheating doesn't cut in. If you are going to cheat, how about letting him know? If he agrees then is all good...but this can not be, right? Because then he may cheat on you as well, and you are the number one, isn't that right?


Selfish world we live in.

"Sexual outsourcing" LOL What a brilliant marketing catch phrase! I mean, what kinda other lingo are we talking about "Lets, touch base!" hell, there are so many different businesslike catch phrases we can throw in there.


I just have a few choice things to say and the main thing is V-I-R-T-U-E-S.


In life...Virtues...are important in how we live our lives...politeness, fidelity and prudence.


All of the virtues are based on love.


If you want to go out there hurting people, if you are polite only to be masking rudeness, if you are faithful to the wrong cause, if you are prudent only because you are avoiding getting hurt...then you are not virtuous.


Why bother getting married or commiting to anything if you do not understand what it means in the first place? Dont bother. Outsource. Pay for sex. Pay to have someone be your wife. Pay someone to go away. Pay someone to tie your laces for you. Hell, go all out and pay someone to live your life for you as well!


*SMH*


Cheating, is it so bad?


Question: Must you ask?


Are we in some sort of Philosophical Anthropology class here??? Pshhhhhh!!!! Its your life. If we are all going to die one day...if the sun is going to die in 4.5billion years...is it worth it to think at all? Is it worth it to exist? Is it worth it to be a virtuous human being?


What do you think? Is love worth anything to anyone anymore??? What does it mean to be polite? To be sincere? To be faithful? To be honorable? To be just?


If any of that matters to you, then you will know what the virtue of fidelity and prudence means to you. To keep the promises you make and to honor the memories of the past as well as to treasure the future. You only live once, its up to you if you want to live in a way that promotes and sustains life or in a way that destroys it.

Flashback,

I totally agree with Flashback, JC clearly deserves the award for the Reply of the Year.


Fantastic comment JC - you're too good :)