DIFFERENCE IN DESIRE?

In General, men desire to lust more than women.......


Women desire romantic notions to lust as it brings more pleasure conquering a man's heart rather than getting lust and feeling guilty afterwards, especially if one partner is already married. She will feel more satisfied if she loves the man (at least some emotions towards the man) to have sex with him.

Like the song goes,

"Some girls will, some girls won't, some girls need a lot of loving and some girls don't"


The majority of women probalby do want romance and a feeling of security, but that is not all women so you are not alone. There are probably a lot of women like you out there.


However, there is a reputational risk. So those women who do feel the way you do may not openly espouse it. Even in an open forum like this. Because if you are seen as deviant people will snipe on a forum. I feel like I have been sniped at recently for openly saying it is OK not to want sex all the time, and for daring to suggest that there are normal people who abstain.



But if you are in HK there is the option of misbehaving, and if you get a reputation you can leave it behind in HK when you return home. A bit of a holiday mentality, that a lot of guys in Asia have.


Now you should also beware fo the trolls who will also PM you and ask if yu swing 8-o Ho hum.