Posted by
momo8..
17 yrs ago
Support him all you can but make a life outside the marriage for yourself.Friends,hobbies,new interests,job,trips.Don't rely on him so much to be your lifeline and don't obsess about "how it was".
This is the present situation and you need to adapt.Go to counselling,I hear St John's mentioned here often enough but let him have his space too.If you smother him and he can't concentrate on his work he will blame you for that.
It takes awhile to get used to HK but be strong and you will do it then your good rapport with your husband willl come back when you have both found your niche.
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hm ice-cream tends to lift me up when i have a problems... simple things make a big difference if you know what i mean
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i've moved to many countries. the first is absolutely the toughest and it's also the toughest if you grew up without a lot of changes in schools, locations, etc.give yourself time to grieve and be sad because you miss your old home. give yourself time to fall in love with your new home, even if it's only temporary. the job will be the focus for awhile as your partner will be trying to impress his or her boss, figure out the expectations, etc. What you can do is to pretend to be happier than you are. He brought you here and if you aren't enjoying yourself, he will feel guilty so don't fuss too much.
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