Any idea the simple and effective way to deal with this isssue?
The pain seem not going away easily..
Thanks in advance.
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Hi Dadda,
She's consider as a good friend of mine, which I put my trust alot. Recently, she reveal that to someone else. I am still in shock, never imagine this could happened.
I was lost trust with others before then I met her, I thought how lucky I am that time that she's a perfect friend I ever had. She guide me and teach me lots of things in life and I start to trust others again cause of her.
Now, things become worse.. the person I trust betrayed our friendship and it's hurting me so badly..
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Dear Flashback,
Thank you so very much for your kind reply for my post. I try to do my best for moving forward even it won't be easy for me. I try to accept the betrayal she did to me but seem very difficult. Part of me like dying, and the same questions arise again and again, how could she? I trust her, I believe in her... I care for her as my own..
Today, we met to talk about this but when we apart I feel like I'm lying to my self. I still upset for what she did, she suggest that put everything behind and move forward, can I? I know we all human, all have weakness, but betrayal is something hurting and painful for me...
For the 3rd day in my life, I try to survive and stand still, keep my self busy with my yoga class. Only the painful wont go away easily...
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If someone treats you like crap, deny them... you:) true friends can make mistakes but this sounds more serious. However you havent given us very much information so in that case, create some time and distance between the two of you....give it time
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Dear glowingesperasza,
Thank you for your comment. To be honest, part of me I really want to give her another chance and forget the things she's done to me but at the other part the pain keep coming back. I really need good therapist for sure as the pain still not go away..
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@ wing-on, thanks for your comments too. I don't know what type the person you are but for my self, I am not the type of the person who like to tell about my personal life to others unless I really really trust that person and it seem I always choose the wrong one to put that trust, at the end get hurt and feel so down by their actions. I dont have to tell my personal life to even 100 peoples. This not regarding secret but this is regarding the trust which being betrayed. Dont you ever experience this kind of pain, I have to tell how lucky you are! Wish you all the best..
@ flashback : again your words come to me as the refreshing water. I try to moving on... I keep telling my self that what she did can't destroy me. This is not friendship as a good friend will not betrayed the others friend. Thank you so much for the kindness courage and also for the suggestion. One of my friend from Macau came to see me with her kids, it's nice feelings too *_*
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As I'm a person and I need to have friend too.For me Friendship is very important and I can consider my friend as my sister or brother,depend if my friend female or male but it's not important the sex. With best friend I can talk and discuss everything about my life. Maybe she doesn't know what the meaning of"FRENDSHIP", you can see she did betrayed you in purpose......I'm agree with flashback opinion too. How can she did it to you after you have gave Her your disponibility,times and kindess? She is really someone that just take adventage of your Good Heart as friend. You can't trust Her anymore as Best friend,Girl. If She still need you, you can give one more chance with alert this time........Because you don't know anymore who She is in front of you. Please be Happy and try to forget all she has done to you,even is not so easy but by times you can do it. .Go a head with your life and meet another people in the future. Just be careful to choose person as best friend next time....Good Luck and Good Bless You^_^
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@ Garland Lady, thank you very much for your comments and I will be more aware in the future for what ever reasons before trusting others.. move on and I know that I'm precious.. I'm a survivor not a victim! :-)
@ Mikael : I did confront her but she deny all and trying so hard to give excuses. She just want us not to think about what happened, forget about the person who are revealing what she told to her and we both move forward.. I was pitty on my self, you right about it and I still feel that once in a while.. Why I have to experienced this betrayal from the person I care and trust in my life.. but .. that was me.. I move on even not so easy indeed... Thank you for your comments as well..
@ wing-on : I dont have such yoga you mentioned above and I'm not aware that at the yoga club I joined they have such class. Do you have any idea where I could joined? Thanks.
@ Salvatore Femme : Thanks for your kind words too. I think you are right that lots of people are so selfish and never consider other peoples feelings as long as they are get what they want.
Above all the pain and sorrow happening to me, I still a precious woman indeed and I will not let anyone to destroy me with their actions towards me... I will stand for what I believe its right.
My thanks to all who are willing to give their kind wisdom and advices..
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beeMe
15 yrs ago
ms goodwill,
can i know how u dealt with the betrayal ? do u still be fren with this fren urs?
i have the same experince now.. i felt betrayed by a close fren of mine, which now
come to the extend where i would hide away from her / cos i dont felt wanna talk with her anymore.. i felt i duno her at all..
for me she seems to be dual personality person.. she seems nice and cute gals in front of everyone... but behind, she acts so bitchy and even flirt in front of me.. when i had confronted her (where i feel uncomfortable with it)
you may flirt with someone privately.. but i dont enjoyed her seductive actions in front of my eyes, which i felt lack of respect (even after i had a confrontation with her b4 this, but she still repeated it) ..
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