Sad & deadend relationship?!

I'm sorry to say this but you need to let this guy go and move on...


You had a good time together but now that's over. If he had wanted to, he would have made attempts to keep the relationship going - for whatever reason, he has decided not to... you need to accept that, hold onto your pride and start to build your new life - whether in HK or elsewhere - but to do it for yourself.

Start to study, you'll meet new people and learn new things and eventually this guy will fade into a memory... it may not seem like it now, but this will pass

Going back to Switzerland would only prolong the agony for you. If something did happen (like you had sex), and you then returned to HK and things are the same as now, you will only be more confused and upset.


as Kate said, move on.

The pain and healing is all part of growing up.

If you really miss him, try to contact him first. But remember that a relationship is made up of 2 people, not only 1. And the sad reality is, it so difficult for long distance relationships to work. A love relationship is about 2 people being together in most cases. Contact him and find out if he misses you like you do.

LGiMV, if this guy wanted her to stay he should have already asked and make plans together.


Alice Kayi, I have a feeling that you are pretty young. Love is a feeling that hard to explain. I understand where this "I want to study in Swiss" coming from. As other had said here, relationship is about two person. I would suggest you contact with this man and be clear with him how you feel and what is in your mind. that including your feeling toward him and the plans you have in your mind. and ask him to do the same to you in reply. Than, jump in or move on is your decision.


No matter what, to go or to stay. remember its your decision after all and it is about YOU, not him. It might be a happy ending, or ended up in tears. Its your choose and your experience. no matter what you choose, enjoy it and take it as an experience.


Good Luck, life is not always only about one MAN. Love and relationship also included you family, friends and more.