So tired to date a busy guy .....

So tired to waiting for his text or call every day ... wait for the day we could meet up . Hopefully , he wont cancel it few hours before because of his work . He actually is a busy guy . I wish i could have more patient ... dont know how long i could stand for this situation ! ... any advise ! Thanks ...

Go out and get busy with your mates. Don't wait around for his text or call and don't take it when it comes if you're doing something else (or if you must answer, only speak for a couple of minutes to explain that you can't talk as you're busy)... don't dump friends/ change plans if he suddenly has a free evening... and if you've got an arrangement to go out and he cancels - keep it light and polite and have a good evening in on your own/ go out somewhere yourself


No one wants to be with someone who's always sitting around waiting for them or complaining - make yourself unavailable and he'll be less likely to cancel because he won't be able to count on your being there when he's free - plus you'll have lots more fun things to tell him when you do meet up


He may be very busy at work - but at the end of the day you have to decide what you want and how much you're willing to put up with...if you don't like the situation and he's not changing then leave and find a man who's not too busy for a relationship with you...

as i always said...if he's really interested in you he would find a way to call you and make the relationship work


if he has time to go to the bathroom... then he can always find time for you

Completely agree with Kate71....it all comes to what you want from your man and what you can put up with. If you are happy with a man who makes an avg salary having a standard 9-5 job and spend the rest of the time with you, then the current one might not be the one you want. However, if you are looking for someon who is ambitious, looking to improve life and plan the life ahead financially, you will need to put up for that...make yourself busy, take some classes, join some activities and find some interests... You will be more attractive to a man by showing your independence and support to the dreams that your man wants to achieve.

Bottom line is don't complain and don't expect to change him (assuming he is not busy cheating and he is faithful to you.) It is you who needs to either adjust or pack yourself to leave...

You need to want the same things. If he can only give 2 nights a week, and you want 5, there will be tension.

And you will probably always feel neglected.


Life is a compromise. Sucessful people in some fields are workaholics, and their personal relationships suffer. However they can afford to keep thier partner in a better class of misery.


If you want somebody to be a steady and always there partner, you may need to find somebody else.