I had a querral with my bf coz he was so busy and not see me for three weeks, when i finally could meet him on Friday night and heard that he was busy on Saturday and couldnt accompany me that day, i was so frustrated, i pushed him away when he tried to hold me while sleeping on bed. then he walked out of the bedroom . to make long story short, now he said he does not want to see me anymore, because he think i dont care about his feeling or health. what shall i do now, i am so sad that he does not give me chance to make up, he even dont allow me to send email to him, he said he would delete my eamils. by the way he is American
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americans are stupid hehe ... just joking
sleep over it and tomorrow is a new day. approach him with an open heart and it will open new opportunities
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tks. i wish to know that is it so if a man really mean he does not want to see you anymore, he wont be back no matter what you say or do? sending emails or calling him would only make him more annoyed, doesnt it?
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This might sound harsh, but all you're saying only tells me that he doesn't love you.
''so busy and not see me for three weeks''
''he does not want to see me anymore''
''he does not give me chance to make up''
''he even dont allow me to send email to him''
''he would delete my eamils''
One thing I know -- if a guy loves you, wants you and cares about you, he makes time for you.
Sorry!
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yes, he changed. before he was not like this.
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are we dating the same guy?
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to magnolia_khan:
oh. why u think so? do u hv same experiences with ur bf?
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haha i was more like joking..yea but i had similar experiences as yours- i missed the guy, he was never there, or didn't seem like he made any efforts, etc...
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oh. sorry to hear about it. i hd thought of making a last try , i wrote a mail, but just saved it in my mailbox not send it.
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yes. girls here are bold, we once went to a park together, and some girls come up and said to him I wanted to take a photo with you. he is a little surprised then he said " you ask my gf, if she agree, no problem" but what could i say, I had to say to her "ok , no problem. you can take photo with him"
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Sounds like he doesn't care about you anymore (if he ever did)...if he doesn't make an effort to make amends, forget him and move on
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Yea mayhappylife, if you wanna have a happy life, forget about sending him the mail.
Yep girls can be quite pro-active(putting it in a nice way) but hey if the guy is really into a woman he'll ignore other pretty things around and focus on that one woman. if he's not sure about you no matter he's surrounded by ugly betty or beyonce he'll still slip out of your fingers sooner or later.
Anyway i'm sure i'm not the only gal here who's similar experiences as yours. U know what, in my case, later on the guy had been trying to get me back(dun, so predictable), but heck, forget it, i gave him the chance, he didn't take it, that's it. no second chance. he's just not worth it. and now i'm happier than ever, don't have to glue to the phone waiting, waiting and waiting. So glad it's over. if you find yourself lonely, take a class, join some hobby groups, there're so much for you to do. enjoy your life. good luck.
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thank you all for your advice
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He's just not that into you. What you can do is simply focus on you and move on. Good luck.
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If boyfriend had avoided you for weeks and said he don't want to see you>>>that means he Don't want you.He is done with you.You should move on.You will get another guy later on.
More you try to win him back,more pain it will give you.It will only get dirtier if you still chase him.That will make you lose your self esteem and get you into depression.
Leave him and go on to next guy,now when i say next guy,i don't mean my bf.
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sometimes when i think of what happened that day, i am still sad and confused, coz just one hour before we quarrelled, he still kiss me gently on my head while his friends also there, then in next hour he say he not want to see me anymore. so all the happy times , all the sweet memories would be so easily evaporated like mist by morning sun?
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Treasure the sweet memories and move on.Time shall heal your wound.Stay strong,take support from family and friends..read religious books and visit religious place like temple/church.And remember in this hard time you got to support yourself.You need your own love for yourself.You have to gaurd your self esteem and must respect yourself and your right to be happy.That means to move on slowly and intelligently.
Do NOT do anything which will make your situation worse!
God bless!
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DUMP HIM ........ MOVE ON
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Bad news for you he's already dating some other girl. Any half way decent foreigner can date lots of girls in GZ, and the girls in GZ aren't shy about approaching guys at all.
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May, sweetie, I hope you don't waste your time thinking about this loser. Do you really want to be with someone who has treated you so badly?
No self-respecting American woman would put up with a bloke not being around for three weeks! It is not acceptable behaviour. You need to develop more self-respect for yourself so that you don't attract some other loser who is going to treat you badly.
When I started dating my fiance he didn't call me once for four days. He got such an ear full he's never done it again! Remember to stand up for yourself and demand to be treated the way you deserve!
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I also am aware that we have only one side of the story here and we may not have been given all the facts. Looking at the OP something does not make sense. That is why I think we are missing some key information. So don't be too quick to bad mouth the man in this.
One thing I have seen time and again, and suffered myself, is that Chinese women like to 'test' the relationship. Sometimes they test it too destruction. Perhaps Chinese men have a greater tolerance for these 'head games'.
But whatever happened it sounds like the relationship is now over.
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What happened was he found an easier relationship.
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thank you all. just two days ago i received a message from him saying he hope i am ok. I replied and he said we could still be friends.
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