Are these possible, or not?

1. to be born and raised and lived in a rich first world country but is unhappy and seeks a thrid world country to live for life at mid age? and why?


2. to have several relationships (marriage, live-in, gfs) and claim you cannot get along with these partners - shld one try and try again until he/she finds someone he/she can get along with? or the person him/herself has a problem?


3. Could a person who dont have real work in a european country, get compensation from his/her country in question and live a fairly good life in asia without working? (depend merely on govt subsidy since he/she claims disability insurance/benefits)?

1. it's cheaper

2. depends

3. yes because the compensation paid by the european country might be cheaper than what is paid if that person stays in that european country, e.g. some countries in Northern/Mid Europe send their ill people to live in the south of Spain because they can pay them lower illness benefits when they live there. In asia that should be even cheaper

1) It's cheaper (lower cost of living), more entertainment (lower cost of living allows more income for entertainment), your single (most guys who are retired couldn't really date the kind of woman they want to), boredom (there isn't a whole lot keeping them where they are and they have done everything already)


2) They have a problem but its unlikely to get much better as they are either unable or unwilling to try changing, so they keep looking for someone compatible with their unusual personality.


3) Yes, usually when on a fixed income (retirement, pension, disability) third world countries have a much lower cost of living then 1st world rich countries. People in the USA, have been moving to Mexico and Thailand for many decades because their dollars go much farther there.

Now another question if this is also a possibility..


1. If people meet online and chatted for a full year many hours a day, then met up in person, and spend like half a day together everyday for 6 mos. Is this solid ground to say you already really know that person and shld be married to him/her?


2. are there sex offenders, human traffickers, serial killers in scandinavian countries?


3. If a woman is in love, is it normal she gets angry when she was being given any advice? and why?

1. No


2. Yes, but they exist in every country. i don't know the crime statistics for scandinavia, but generally speaking i would think they have a very low percentage of people in these categories (lower than the US for sure and very likely lower than China too)


3. generally speaking i would think that people in love (men or women) get angry if a third party gives good advice that goes against their love, i.e. don't get married after 6 months, which is very sounds advice but might go against the love



Last word: combining the two posts you made, i would not worry about him being a sex offender or something like that. i would also not worry about his money situation.


what i would worry about is his ambition in life. someone who simply lives on govt subsidy at say the age of 45 lacks ambition (irregardless of disability benefits - except maybe mental illness or lack of both arms and legs). what is he doing all day? hang around, sleep in, chat on the computer?


you don't want to end up with a guy who is just lazy (even though he might have enough and stable money to provide for a nice life). it more sounds like a loner to me.

A sex slave trader would not invest 1 year on the internet and then 6 months of half days in Asia.

1) What I believe is that familiarity breeds contempt. This is why people get divorced, and relationships fail, and why "New" relationships are always so exciting.


2) No sex trader would invest that kind of time in a target. Though they do have sex traffickers everywhere. Eastern European countries have the most.


3) When people ask advice they don't really want advice what they want is confirmation. Confirmation that what they are already thinking is correct and the right thing. Any advice that is against their preconceived direction is really unwanted.