over heard my husband .....

not quite sure what to do and would appreciate any advice ...


what would you do if you where me??


my husband calls me today without realising it! hes out having few drinks with his friends -so i put the phone straight back down -he calls again ...same thing ...i can hear him talking , laughing with his mates so i try shouting his name -i gather it must be in his pocket and hes unaware...so i put the phone down as im busy in work -


anyway ..he calls again ...all i can hear him saying ''yeah the wife is away and my brother was in town so i took him to wanchai we bought 3chicks back with us hahaha''

WTF...................

Im then realise he must be talking about when i was out of town last month and his 26 brother came to stay for a week-


i am so hurt , angry , upset , furious ...not sure how to handle this one ...

hes out now still

Oh man...that sucks nads!


Right, as with anything in life, when you accidentaly find out information you weren't supposed to be privy to, be brutally honest.


"You pocket dialed me by mistake when you were out with the mates and I overheard you talking" then repeat what he said and tell him exactly what you think of that.


Hate to say this but, he will most likely say he was lying, bragging to look cool in front of the mates.


Then you will sit there going, wow, maybe he has done this before too! Otherwise, how would he have known it was this easy?


Truth is, I have worked with a big bunch of banker wanker types and I would overhear conversation such as the one you have overheard. Many times. But the nitty gritty of it is, the ones who were decent enough to not cheat on their wives, they never bragged about cheating on their wives. So if you heard what you did, its likely he wasn't lying about it.


I am sorry. Sorry for you and I know you must be just eaten up inside :(


Honesty, integrity, and confront the MoFo so you hear the excuses or begin to make your own.


Good luck.

dear topgal,


that's awful.


i agree with justin, should confront him.

would also go the the doctor and get tested to make sure everything is ok.


even if he is just "bragging", i think that is so disrespectful.


either way, he screwed up BIG time and is risking his relationship with you.

Pshhh, I have this on good authority that decent folk don't just "brag" about things they haven't done...least of all in this matter. I mean, its one thing to brag that you can do a 360 while wakeboarding. Its a whole different thing to brag about "Me and the kid bro went to WC and got three Ho's back to the marital pad and wikkiwikkiwowwow'd it!"


*SMH*


As F100 said, this is a BIG screw up.