My husband was going out with his brother every day and night for a week. I found a mysterious phone number called him every night(9pm ish) and morning(4-6am).
I called the number to see who that is. But the number was "not in use" every time i called.
But he got a phone call today too. So the person must be using the SIM only to call my husband or whatever guys....
Is this how the hooker call guys w/o revealing themselve to wives?
Is he cheating?
1)If it's an important phone number he talks everyday, why doesnt he save the number?
2)Why is the number inactive when i call?
Plz give me wisdom..
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Not necessarily. I keep getting these calls from bogus numbers usually around 3pm. They always used to be numbers beginning with '3' which I no longer pick up. Have also had some trouble with numbers beginnig with '21' and ocassionally '6' and '5' which I still take. Sometimes you get through to what sounds like call centre/boiler room. Other times, it doesn't connect. Can you tell me what prefix the number had.
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hahaha, so funny. girls dont be so pessimistic. Simply ask him about it, and you'll find out the answer. Anyway he's your hubby so you know if he's lying or not. then analize everything, before you conclude. gl.
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Just had one of those weird calls now. 3271 something. Answered but didn't say anything. Disconnected and phoned back but got the can't be connected number.
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Why are you snooping through your husband's phone? Its HIS phone, not yours. That has to be the most annoying thing in the world and is perhaps cause for a reason for him to be calling someone else that is a little less of a paranoid dictator.
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Mjrelje. Can't see anything wrong with a wife checking up on her husband or vice versa.
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I can. Its snooping and highly annoying. Its also just looking for trouble.
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lgmv nowadays lots of reputable companies use 3xxx numbers (e.g. banks, etc). the old 3rule doesn't work anymore...
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I think there's plenty wrong with snooping on your partners phone. Not quite as bad as hacking into their email, but same ballpark imo.
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he is cheating.. confirmed
divorce him.. and spare him please...
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he is cheating.. confirmed
Nothing in the OPs post confirms cheating. Nothing.
divorce him.. and spare him please...
What a silly comment. You know nothing of the situation except that the OPs brother-in-law is in town and the bros are catching up for a few drinks while he's here. And wifey doesn't recognize a phone number found on hubby's phone while snooping.
Qualityoflife maybe you could suggest that you all go out for a drink or two. Might be nice getting to know your bro-in-law a bit better. And hands off hubby's phone. Not cool.
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thanks for the comments.
Bytheway, there is a reason that i need to serch his phone.
Here the point is that the time the person calls is.. not office hour. It's 4am , 6 am,,.
The phone number starts with 9. But work only she(or he?) calls him.......
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thanks for the comments.
Bytheway, there is a reason that i need to serch his phone.
Here the point is that the time the person calls is.. not office hour. It's 4am , 6 am,,.
The phone number starts with 9. But work only she(or he?) calls him.......
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Asking a husband should be easier and quicker than asking random people on internet. :S
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OP. Think about it. If it were a prostitute or mistress, she would pick up.
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Mr Bigglesworth
heard the word sarcasm ?
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Scorpio, yes I get sarcasm usually... I'm new to this forum and I guess I've read too many neurotic posts in such a short amount of time that I jumped on yours assuming the worst.
Peace :)
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QOL "Bytheway, there is a reason that i need to serch his phone."
-- such as what exactly?
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well
either she is suspicious by nature
or
there is something else going on, apart from these unknown calls that she havent mentioned...
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or she's just f***ing nosey.
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thanks all,
and mjrelje, there's a reason i need to be "f*ckin nosey".
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just as i said...
"there is something else going on, apart from these unknown calls that she havent mentioned..."
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Woman's intuition is a funny thing... in my own case, it is almost always correct. I assume there must be something else in your mind that leads to your suspicion about the calls. And I agreed that no random sales call will begin to work at 4am or 6am... I would suggest keep cool at the moment, do not confront your husband as it would seem like you don't trust him (Some couples can be quite open to each other just about everything, money, phone calls, mails and etc. some would want their own privacy and annoyed at spouse snooping around.)
I assume your brother in law is just in town temporarily? Wait until he is gone and see if the calls will stop and your life would be back to normal again.
I would however advice unless you have found some hard evidence, do not be paranoid… it is not healthy to a marriage to be suspicious, not to mention, you’re subject yourself to the pain of doubting.
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"it is almost always correct" utter rubbish. there is no difference in intuition between the sexes.
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another woman who think she is always correct... :-)
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> Qualityoflife,
have you tried using your husband's phone to call that number?
Some cheaters use a different SIM card to text or call each other. The fact that the calls are at 4 and 6 am may indicate that the person in question is either out of HK, but still using a HK sim card to call, or someone who is up all night.
Does your husband travel?
If you noticed that number something else must have alerted you. Any other red flag?
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"or someone who is up all night." nosh*t Sherlock! And leave his handset alone...
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1.better trust each other.
2. if anything fishy, see is he is nervous or obsessed about is mobil.check if he suddenly care about his look, trying to lose weight, look more hansome, smile for no reason...
3.you be good and attactive and happy always, whether he is cheating or not.
4.although you are life partners, still two individuals.you do not own him
5,assume he is cheating, what u gonna do?
6if think negative. it may come true
7. sometimes little bit cheating(so call) not nesessary very harm.
8. love him, trust him, repect him... is the best way to prevent.
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just ask him. he's your husband afterall!
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chinese milk tea gave good advice !
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I'm with rittit on this, I don't get what all the inspector clueseaush*te is about. Just ask him, or do you two not really talk much?
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He may honestly have a erectile issue that he is uncomfortable discussing. If I know one thing about men its that they pride themselves on 'that'.
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if hes cheating, he would be more cautious with calls...he goes out often so theres no need for the cheaters to be obvious at home with calls. chillax...
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If you have such little trust in him, he probably *should* be cheating. I would.
I can tell you right away if he's cheating or not simply by answering the following questions:
1. Are you better looking than he is?
2. Do you take care of your body and go to the gym etc, or have you put on weight?
3. How many times a week do you initiate sex?
4. Give 3 examples of things you have done in the last 2 weeks to make him feel needed, like a 'man', or 'special'.
Answer those questions and I don't even need to know about the phone calls to tell you if he's cheating or not.
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Miffus, I agree with what you wrote.
See how many posters have said "just ask him" ... a lot of women are unwilling to do this... they want to confront him with evidence of his wrong doing and then take the moral high ground. Thereby avoid working thru any issues that might come up if they ask him, i.e. he is bad, he must change, I don't have to.
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