Is he or she truly into you? A few clear signals tell you all you need to know.
Dating is supposed to be fun, but often we are riddled with confusion and anxiety. Perhaps we know we are really keen on someone but feel less certain about whether the feeling is mutual. How can we tell if someone is truly interested? As an animal behavior expert who uses what we know from other animals to help better people's lives, I get asked this question a lot.
The interesting thing is that we engage in some of the same behaviors as animals that reveal our true intentions. So why do so many of us end up befuddled?
One reason is that, unlike other animals, humans can have hidden intentions and multiple agendas, and can attempt to manipulate others to satisfy their own wants and desires. For example, sometimes people are interested in someone, but only for a short-term affair, not a relationship.
Other times, they may be dating multiple people and you are not the preferred love interest. These and other scenarios don't make dating much fun, and sifting through the confusion can be tiresome and painful.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/wild-connections/201907/sure-signs-relationship-is-developing