Posted by
Ianthe
18 yrs ago
Some of you may remember my thread of a month or so ago (caught my b/f making out with my friend at a club)... anyway, we broke up and she is no longer my friend, so.
New issue, just needing feedback becos I'm still feeling a bit vulnerable and pathetique --- last week I bumped into my ex-b/f's flatmate at a bar and he revealed that he seriously fancies me. He's cute, he's nice, and right now, I need someone to make me feel a bit good about myself as a woman.
I am a bit worried however because he and my ex are still flatmates and friends. Would it affect their friendship if I were to start seeing the flatmate?
And should I care?
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Who cares if it affects their friendship? You are the injured party here not him. That said, it'll make you look a bit desperate; anyone will do sort of thing. You don't really fancy him all that much anyway or else these "sparks" would have flown before.
It's not worth it- why allow your tosser xBF to know how sh*tty and insecure you are feeling? If anything, politely turning the flatmate down will make you look bloody dignified and I bet tosser gets second thoughts.
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The question is, do you fancy him equally? Nice stroke on your bruised ego to have your ex's flatmate take a swing at you, but best to stay away
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Denovo> Sorry, I should have said, this was the first time I met the flatmate. We were introduced by mutual friends that night and didn't realise the connection right away. It was a bit awkward initially, of course, when we realised who the other was. We had not met before because he travels a lot so every time I was at my ex's, he was out of town.
Everyone else, thanks, good advice.
Aspect> Point taken!
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