Posted by
pinolino
18 yrs ago
To have white skin is considered to be more beautiful here. Even local men told me that they love it. That applies for other countries as well, i.e. Japan. But can't see that this should be a reason to dump her. If you do, go ahead....
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KAT8
18 yrs ago
The post made me laugh out loud!
You must have noticed she was "white" when you first asked her out.
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Having fair skin is consider beautiful for the Chinese too. Just tell her that she's cute and pretty without those make-up. Give her sweet kisses. You don't have to dump her - just simply explain to her you were observing what other flight attendants had on their faces. Cheer up and smile :-) This is just a miscommunication, misunderstanding.
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Yep!! And how shallow are you?? Do you really want a relationship??
In anycase, 9 weeks?? Man, that's nothing, to decide any which way! Do you even know her as a person??
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Do you wish to dump her because of her whitening products or because of your fight? Or because she looked odd in the morning???
Yup, best that she dump you..
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Yes, very thoughtful indeed. I suggest to dump her immediately...to do her a favor...
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hkhiker > well, I guess you like the girl who don't use the make up, am I right ? Hope you can find another girl who willing to go to Africa for holiday soon. Africa is a nice place .......
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ha hkhiker. you sound like a player in denial. 9 weeks.... perfect timing. what a perfect match for me. you should drop me a line to save your trip to Mo Bar !
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Any suggestions, Mr Hiker?
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White people often want tans (fake, solarium, sunbathing etc), darker people often want to be lighter
- so what! if she is a decent and kind gal deal with it - most people do something minor which is unfavourable to others
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Gee Ed, I just said it sounded like a wind up because it was funny- dont see why you should delete my comment.
This is not about race, nor about the oft-debated topic of skin whitening in relation to class or racism.
It is obvious you don't like the girl very much, bcecause if you liked her enough all round, EXCEPT for that kabuki face thing, you'd try to work it out.
From what you've described you see her as a shallow, vain person and you can't stand her.
Dumping her was a right thing to do, because I am sure there are other men out there who like and appreciate her kabuki rituals, but who are we to question it eh?
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well hkhiker,
if you understand why caucasians wanna get tanned, then that's just the same (but exact opposite) of why asians wanna be white/fair.
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btw, i'm asian and i don't have white skin... my "caucasian" bf said i have the right color, so who cares what others think?
if u really like the girl, then you could make her think the same too... (i think) ;)
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hey Mr hiker, where do you go on Sat evening?
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