OK - Now for the woman questions

I have given your post a lot of thought and have come up with the following answers:


1) Because we do

2) Because we do

3) Because it is

4) Because it is

5) Because we don't want to be 'that' kind of girl


Hope that answers your queries


NEXT!!!

1) Because its lovely to hear

2) Because we are fighting against years of social conditioning to be 'be a nice lady' and 'not make waves'

3) Definitely not always true. But hurt can make people do funny things..

4) Because its inconsiderate if your fellow house dweller has to constantly pick up after you! (this does not just include romantic partners but anyone you share a house with housemates, kids, etc. Grr!)

5) No idea. I would call/text/email/make some contact with someone I was really into to...lifes too short!

Great replies... And mine are:


1. Words can mean more than actions. Particularly these words which ideally should said many times in front of her girlfriends.


2. Because you should KNOW what the matter is without her telling you.


3. Because he "hurt" her and her friends will expect it.


4. It's not about the sock. It's because you NEVER put anything in the laundry basket, never do the laundry, never do the washing up, never call to say you will be late, never bring her breakfast in bed, etc...


5. Even if she is interested, she cannot show it - till he says "I love you" in front of her girlfriends.

1. Since you've done so many things to please me, saying "I Love You" is as simply as breathing the air, why just not say it?


2. We have our own self-esteem, sometimes we don't mean what we say, its physical and emotional difference, like guys can always seperate sex and love


3. To dump someone or being dumped are both painful, why let bad memories keep haunting us? Someone said here before: when passion is gone, things become unbearable.


4. Its disgusting, period.


5. Well, I could definitely call him if I am really into him

MPL...


FIRST, not all woman just want to hear the WORD I LOVE YOU !!! hell .. BUt acTIon is much more importante... saying "I LOVE U" its only nice, good when MAN Sincere. and IT doesnt mean u say it Casually. It lost the meaning !!!


SECOND. ohh come on.. there must be something man do that makes US WOMAN wants to drive knifes to MAN. ( Unless she is in PMS.)


THIRD. Shoot man.....!! when someone hurts you, what do you expect?? smile. OF course you hate the person....for sometime.... coz it really HURTS being HURT by someone that you care.!! But its not always the case we WOMAN hates our Exes... ONLY THOse who deserved to be HATED.. becoz of what they DID to us.!!


FOURTH, dude....not about the socks... but please do for all MEN out there.. be considered... staying with a big baby BOY, ok... but at least please put your socks in the laundry basket.. sometimes we just tired and yet.. MAN doesnt even notices it. a bit of thank you after all the hard work would be good !! we're Not MAID !! but PARTNER..


FIFTH, hahah funny... you knw ladies has rules... we dont want to spoilt our image. we need assurance that that MAN interested in US. that He think of US... and for asian.. like me... sometimes we just thought , well I thought that its the guys that should initiate although not all the time but most of the times. But for me... if i have the no. and wanted to see HIM i text.call.... ( but unfortunate at the moment for me... if u see my thread..)

1. Being that you LOVE your girl then what would the problem be? It is not as if you were playing games and no matter what you do we still need to hear it .

2. Because if you pay attention to what you say & do: YOU SHOULD KNOW.

3. It is part of the grieving process, ask a psychiatrist.

4. It is not about the sock but your inconsiderate behaviour. We are, in most cases, working women with full time jobs who unlike you guys.. get home to continue working as YOUR MAIDS. Should we be more appreciated?

5. Obviously you don't look like TOM CRUISE so deal with it!

1. I LOVE YOU - three words that aren't to be taken too seriously. I've heard it from guys that I'd only known a few days/weeks. Action over words any day!

2. Funny, never felt the urge to reach for the knives

3. Still see my ex every/every other week and still on very civil terms, life's too short to hoarde so much hate!

4. Agree that it is inconsideration

5. Think it's that men are programmed to accept rejection better than women

1)weak, emotional, like to be pampered

2)we think men should be able to read out mind and we don't think we have to learn how to communicate with them

3)weak, emotional, can't bear to be wrong for a) picking the wrong guy or b) doing something stupid which makes the right guy leave us

4)can't answer this one b/c I am usually the messier one

5)weak, emotional, like to be "chased" so they feel like the "princesses" that they are


SO... not all women are like that... just the weak, emotional, immature ones.

ok so i know i'm a little late in adding a reply but i think its an interesting topic.

1. i think actions speak louder than words and i've had partners who can say it quite easily but never actually show any signs that they care/respect for you. the words mean nothing if you dont feel the emotion, i would rather someone just treat me right.


2. women are twisted creatures, they expect men to be psychic, theyre emotional and needy. they will be in a bad mood and the unsuspecting male will be the victim of it. so you always know when 'nothing' is wrong actually she's sh*tty because you left the toilet seat up but is too embarrassed to tell you that and will stew over it until she can think of a better reason why she should be angry at you. generally, its some comment you made 6 months ago that she just remembered and got stroppy about. *who knows*


3. i dont know, i tend to stay on amicable terms with my ex's


4. please refer to answer 2.. the sock is just a cover for the real reason she is angry...*twilight zone music*


5. i give men a chance. i dont want to look desperate so if they havent called me after a few days i will call to organise to meet up. if they decline for whatever reason, i keep their number in my phone for a week, if they dont call me i delete their number, i'm fine with taking the initiative but if someone isnt interested enough to call you after a week, theyve probably forgotten about you and its not worth the effort.


thats my two cents worth :)