Posted by
deb610
10 yrs ago
My husband works in Shanghai but comes home at least once a month. I always thought our relationship was stable even so we hardly have sex. Lately I found out he has been looking at escort agencies (no prove he has used one). I did had an infection once and blame the hotel towels he had used, but now have my doubts. I'm so upset but he acted as nothing has happened, and said he only looked and not called. I don't know how to handle this, act as normal but feel betrayed....
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It's possible he is browsing these web sites as a kind of porn, and the fantasy is enough to amuse him.
I should mention that anyone looking for an "escort" in China does not need to go online to find them - they approach men in the street.
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Agree with CaptDave, no need to search online for escort service in China. Here is my idea, keep if you still love him, go away if you don't. Sorry to say it happens on most of the guys who have business trips to China, hardly prevent.
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If your husband stays in Shanghai for a month and look at escort service sites then you bet that he is doing it. If you want to keep your relationship with him then someone has to make sacrifices. Either you stay with him in Shanghai or he comes back to HK for good. Long distance relationship is the hardest to keep and maintain.
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Men without sex one month ! Its impossible )) He only looked and not called ….. BS!
Its easy to call escort then go to the bar pick up a girl, no need waist time and money for a drinks ..
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It is tough to stop a man who wishes to cheat in while away in China. The hotel towel excuse should had been a red flag!
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"I always thought our relationship was stable even so we hardly have sex."
Big mistake. I promise you, if you are having sex less than 3-4 times a week he's getting it elsewhere. 100%. Don't fool yourself. I don't care who he is, I don't care what he told you, I don't care what you believe.
If you want him, find a way to satisfy him. It's that simple. If you don't satisfy him someone else will or he will go insane. You won't find a guy who is an exception to this rule except someone who is on anti-depressants, a completel alcoholic, or has something else majorly wrong with him, in which case he's not the kind of guy who can hold down a job or contribute to the household.
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I totally missed this infrequent sex bit when I first read this thread.
Truth be told - the phrase "my husband is not that intersted in sex" ALWAYS should be followed by the words "with me".
Wives who want to protect their marriages need to know that there are lose women queing up to steal their husband ... If you don't satisfy him, someone else will.
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