Posted by
72siger
18 yrs ago
rescue from the different!
glad to continue here and indeed this is rocking the world from A to Z. Maybe math can help:
both are gay in a way so ++=+
both could argue to have a certain minus to them; so --=+ again...
perfect couple, may they life forever... any chance to meet them up at the next champagne mixer!
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this is very interesting, I think they can succeed,
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I personally think that sexuality is not categorical, but dimensional, so every situation is possible!
I also tend to think that there are a number of different ways of being/having become gay/having experienced homosexuality.
I'm very interested in others' point of view on this...
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the trick in the threat is "convertible"...
yup roof off and only the stars are the limit!
... or why he not does a sex change and we experience some lesbians?
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I totally agree - Chat we need more details.
I agree with mpl though - if a couple is in love, how could either of them possibly not realise exactly what gender their partner is!?!?
In all honesty though, in the situation you mention, I think it would depend on the person as to whether they would still be in love or not. If the partners truly loved each other for their personality, then it really shouldn't matter; however if the relationship was very sex oriented and the persons involved are only interested in gay sex, then it would probably be more of a problem.
I like the first idea better - that they just love each other for who they are, not "what" they are (so to speak) :-)
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the "original" boy was born and died as a bi-sexual...
thats the simple answer!
and as you speak of today, isn't it medically proven that you are born with your sexual orientation? - gay, lesbian, bi...
great story! I even can hear opera music to it!
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Well it all turned out well for Mulan! In Disneys version anyhow!
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Onefreespirit:
-Categorical= distinct categories, well separated and individualised (eg married/sinlge/widow/separated) (sorry, my own definitions)
-Dimensional= somewhere along a spectrum, with tiny gradual little changes (like time).
What I meant is that I tend to think that you can find anything in terms of attraction for someone else, in all different proportions, being two extremes of being 100% heterosexual and 100% homosexual. There can be some attraction to some degree to someone of the opposite/or same sex, without acting out on it, up to actually acting out on it, up to actually preferring it exclusively. In my little way of looking at things, 2 gay people or 2 straight ones would not be gay or straight to the exact same extent. Let alone bisexual people.
What would constitute a categorical approach would be to say you can only be straight, or gay, or bi, in very distinct and separated boxes, in a way, more definite too.
I also agree with you that Chat's subject as such, being fictitious and poorly credible in real life, is difficult to answer for itself, but it can raise different issues, and so far, Chat's threads, however "silly" (sorry Chat) they first appeared, have tended to get lots of elaborate comments on important aspects of relationships in general.
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hi
Im new here but one thing i can syphatize with im also ts male to female discreetly i think love is not something that is tangible face you can touch, lips you can kiss, body that you can caress, but more importantly its deeply penetrating yourself through hes soul kinda similar with f*cking.....i beleive that loving is unconditional from what he is to who is he.....continue to love her as like before because the most upset part of life is when you realise that you loose the most important part of you by giving up her..... and trying to pick up the pieces of memory from the past with her to be happy and to cope up in present..
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hello,Roxy Gal.I am agree with you .I am in shanghai ,too.And I am a Chinese student. I want to make friends with you. My E-mail address is chenliang@126.com.You can drop me an E-mail if you want to know my story.It is a sad story told about a boy with me ,thanks.
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You misunderstand the meaning of butterly love
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I am chinese mainland girl,I find My understanding of it is so different from your westners....
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This is like asking, if a straight guy realises that the woman he loves is actually a man, will he continue to love him?
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Yes, gay men are men. They just have a different orientation than straight men (who happen to make up the majority of our population). What I don't understand is, why can't some people just respect other people's orientations and stop try to "convert" everybody else to be like themselves?
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