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Posted by a.m. 18 yrs ago
how can I find a date specially for someone like me who is a domestic helper. Does men really look for a woman's status and money?

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annebin 18 yrs ago
On your rest day, join a hiking group or engage in activities that interest you but don't necessarily cost a lot. The key is to have varied interests, healthy self-confidence, a positive outlook and not be desperate to find a date.

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shaq 18 yrs ago
Like it has been pointed out to you already, men hardly care about what a lady does (but how 'cool' you can be, I guess).


So, open-up when a guy hit on you :D. Be yourself and ..... Goodluck!

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
Its good to hear that men does not look at what a woman does so maybe I'm not cool cause there is not even one guy that hit on on me! Funny but not really funny but then again it true.

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
Well 13th Apostle I have never dated and its suggested here that I should join hiking or other things that can be done but to where will I can find hiking groupetc... Its good to know that men doens not look at what a woman does.

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shaq 18 yrs ago
a.m. >> how about giving signs to a guy you like that you want him to hit on you :D? It works sometimes .... Goodluck!

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
shaq

Giving a guy sign to hit on me?! wow that is scary and I am too shy to do that plus I have no idea how to do it. To me it sounds flirting and I hate that.

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
beancurd,

I have seen the SCMP and there are a lot in the internet but it so awkward initiating and I do not like the idea. Thank you anyway, I like the interaction here at this site.

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shaq 18 yrs ago
If you know what you want, you grab it when you find it. I'm afraid if you make no attempt at all, you got nothing at all; no pain, no gain, it's said.


Still, good luck!

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shaq 18 yrs ago
A smile, for instance! It wouldn't hurt; would it? :-).


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coquinne 18 yrs ago
a.m if you're real DH don't lose hope. Here is a first hand experience of a former DH who not only dated but married her "french charming" whom she met in Wanchai almost a decade ago. It takes a lot of confidence, good english vocabulary, throw in some innocent flirting and not so bad accent to meet one and if you really like to date someone just be yourself, no pretensions!

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
coquinne,

Wanchai is not a place for me. And what is innocent flirting or how does it looks like?

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
Never,

Your helper is 26 years old and too innocent for the guys you know. What do you mean by that? I am 36 years old am I too or if not innocent for the guys you know? Just wondering.

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DaT.R.U.T.H 18 yrs ago
Boy friend and Girl friend


Definition of a boy:


Young immature male lacking judgment


Definition of a Girl:


Young immature Female lacking judgment


Definition of a friend was someone who holds personal regards and affections for another hence definition of boy and Girl is two young immature individuals lacking in maturity and judgment holding person regards of affection one for the other.


Where god said let us create man.


But the women ask for boy What? Friend,


Where he act like a boy she can understand because she thought she got a What? A Man but instead she got a Boy What? Friend


She got exactly what she asked for.


Hope you understand this meaning its beyond the flesh of emotions.



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a.m. 18 yrs ago
Let me just say that I am looking for a serious relationship. And not just someone to have but a man who is first and formost mature. And I believe that men who involve sex in a relationship outside marrieage is very immature.

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
corrections marriage and a woman who is sexually involve in her proccess of looking for a lifetime partner is very immature. I assume there are avenues to find out whether one is sterille or not and if one is infertil or not. And I strongly believe that there are still women who uphold their purity right to thier marriage not just me.

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dreamzunlimited 18 yrs ago
Hi, same goes for me... i have been in Hong Kong for last 4 months and not able to find a friend...i don't know the local language. is that an issue.. but i hope people speak english... interested in dating...i am.. :-)

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DaT.R.U.T.H 18 yrs ago
Dont be missled by the "word flesh of emotions" because our soul is our mind,will,emotion its what we focus on will affect what is already Predetermine in your life to obtain.


What you are experiencing is initiation of acknowledgment of an agreement to yourself that you have to prepare to accept who you are within morality and face your moral state of thoughts I am not just talking about sex. which is exciting freedom of receiving and collecting a gift. Your huband to be...however


Try to consider this because after or before when you meet your husband to be AND THINGS are not going right as you thought during the course of your own conscience time spent.


Remember a perfect marriage is for life growing together AND doesnt die when there is no water in the heat of the day.


You cannot change your husband to be and he cannot change you, if you want to live a peacful life and to love others as well FREELY because this is your moral charecter.


So purity starts from our thought life because that is who we are, for it come out from our heart. That why we all have been born with a conscience and not for us to force our thought life on to others.


Its like two ship sailing in the wrong direction.


Stay in who you are and dont go looking as he will and you will find each other.

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a.m. 18 yrs ago
Da.T.R.U.T.H,

You just simply make me laugh and are we on the same wavelength anyway? First boyfriend and now ships sailing? What is next divorce maybe? And let me just say that in any case in marriage the core foundation is not very strong that is why there is divorce or some call it separated and some still call it apart. This is what I strongly believe in. Just like constracting as building or a house the most important part is the foundation. What is that foundation the hole in which to build a post and this is not just one there are more than one. So if these things are very strong and well founded no storm can break it. For me it is very immature to divorce but then again the very foundation is not strong that is why people divorce or separate or whatever you call it.

Therefore if I want a boyfriend I can simply go to Wan Chai or Lan Kwai Fong and get one or pick up one. I hope I made myself clear. Thank you.

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