Posted by
blobbs
15 yrs ago
My Japanese girlfriend want to have her portrait. painting She says she is still in good shape so she wants to be naked. Also, she reckons men are much better at appreciating the female form, so she wants it to be a guy who paints her. I suspect the real reason is she finds the idea sensual. Should I allow this or tell her "no way"? Anyway, we don't know any painter, so its probably a non starter. I really do not feel comfortable with this and find her wish weird.
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I'd compromise and tell her to get painted by a woman if it makes you feel better.
I paint myself and I have to say that when it comes to human anatomy I adore the female body a lot more. Women are asthetically more beautiful and as I am female I know the differences quite well. I am no lesbian but I have always enjoyed looking at and drawing beautiful women. No true that a man could do it better...
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thanks, had a long discussion with her about it and she admitted that she did find the idea of being painted by a male sexy, but I should not worry about it because nothing will happen, just let her enjoy it. I think I shall agree to it, we have a great sensual life together, and should let her enjoy her fantacy. Now its out in the open, and no more pretence about men being better painters of the naked female form I feel better about it although a bit queezy about actually doing it. Apparantly takes several hours so could be a bit of a bore.
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I can understand why you are uncomfortable with it... but we all have fantasies and her's is pretty innocent - so why not go along with it... it might open the door to exploring other fantasties she might have that you might be more than happy to explore ;-)
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ziggity, I agree with you, could be a lot worse and she will owe me one of my own. I am sure I will get over it. If anybody knows a painter (no creeps please) will give it a try
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I actually don't see anything bad in it... it'll probably be very boring and uncomfortable and the artist will wear a mask and just be an artist.
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I see no problem with it, its art for crying out loud.
Think of it this way, female goes to get tattoo and male tattoo artist tattoos her...does this mean you need to worry?
She will be lying there getting her portrait painted. Why not go with her and sit around while she is being captured on canvas?
I suggest you go along, you will then realize how clinical it is really. I understand you are creeped out about another man viewing your lady and her girlie bits, but most likely its not going to be a portrait of her girlie bits but of her. Be openminded...go with the flow. She wants a portrait before her body gives way to gravity maybe (although most Japanese birds I know are pretty skinny even well into old age...)
And please don't think she will "owe you one" for this. When you love someone you will give without expecting in return...and if they love you, they will always be the same. This is just a painting...if you want a nude painting of your own I am sure she would have no qualms about it and you know thats true. So if she "owes" anything, just bare that in mind when you want your boy bits on canvas!
Good luck! :)
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Well, have decided to be cool about it and give it a go, as last few postings have suggested. Thanks to the voice of reason. Obviously she is turned on about it because just talking about it has been a great aphrodisiac.
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Gosh i would just LOVE to have such a g/f... this is all so sensual and exciting... i wish i could be in your place and i would even take a day off to visit the whole session...
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