Posted by
Tjej
18 yrs ago
I am sharing a computer with my boyfriend and he left his e-mail up and in it he said some pretty nasty things about my family. Should I confront him? Help!
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He said nasty things to who? If you confront him, you will also be admitting that you read his emails! You may ask him how he feel about your family instead, but do it casually. And resolve any misunderstandings or issues from there.
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I definately rant about my boyfriends family to everyone except him. What would be the point in upsetting him when I only need to vent my frustrations?
You could try talking to him about it, but as long as he doesn't deliberately disrespect them, I'm sure he didn't mean anything hurtful.
Maybe he left his emails open on purpose?
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I am not sure what confronting him would accomplish.
Doesn't have the right to think bad things about your family? Doesn't he have the right to say what he thinks? (Believe it or not, there are many people who think that their significant others are not allowed to have a single negative thought about them or their family members).
Unless you think that his perceptions are based on misunderstandings or the things he said were just malicious without just cause, or completely unfounded, I would just leave him alone. The man is entitled to his opinions.
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