It's so damn hard to build a foreign relationship, it's not about love, it's about something I don't know, is it culture? I really don't know, it has been one and a half year since we are together, I know that I like him a lot and I can tell that he loves me just by looking at his eyes. I always wonder if there's something wrong with me, am I the one who always creat problems? sh*t!
right now we are on a break, I don't know if we will be able to be together again like b4.
any comments or advice?
and btw,I'm Chinese and he's a Canadian.
Thank you
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Kek
18 yrs ago
It's not necessarily hard to build a foreign relationship.9th year and still as strong as ever.At first neither could speak the same language.
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Rainbow. Sometimes you have to admit that it just isn't meant to be. Nothing to do with him being a foreigner, it's just that maybe he isn't the guy for you.
Speaking as ignorantly as possible, he probably does love you, but just doesn't feel you are the one to be his wife.
So, don't force it. Patience my dear, patience.
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Kek
18 yrs ago
Rainbow,you say,"I LIKE him a lot and I can TELL he LOVES me by just looking at his eyes.That's quite a reveailng sentence.
It seems neither of you actually say you love each other.You don't.Neither does he.Its guesswork.
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I'm Chinese dating a Canadian and it's the best relationship ever. I don't think it has anything to do with culture or language. It's about what you feel towards each other. Rainbow, maybe something is not clicking, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's yours or his fault. Sometimes things just don't work out the way we want them to. Take it easy. We all say, the next one is gonna be better and sometimes it's true. Keep your hopes up!
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i don't believe in breaks....if you can't work it out without breaking up, it's probably not meant to be. at least that's what i always feel!
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I don't agree with what the ladies before said. I think any relationship needs some break from time to time. Boys can be very childish sometimes. If you show too much care, he simply become big headed. My bf is foreign too, we often piss of each other and like rainbrow said, take a break. Then we start to miss each other again and finally make up. Of course one should not LOOK FOR trouble, but when you are in the mood for a break, don't push yourself and him to stay too close. At least it worked on me. People can be different though. Good luck!
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Kek, a lot of times action speaks louder than words, we did say "love" words to each other not just one time but many many times whenever it feels like it, but to me that senses and action are much more important, it's amazing that you can tell somebody loves you just from his action, like the way he looks at you, the way he cares for you, I don't know if people understand or not but words always lose its meanings, women are very sensitive, we don't need to know things from words. I don't know why I even posted my story asking people for advice about my relationship, nobody but myself knows the situation perfectly, one and a half year is not long but it's not short either, how can I put our history into a couple of words and expect people can give me good advice?
my heart will take me to where it means to be, it could be just as simple as this.
Thanks everybody
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