Thobacci, I'm going to be totally honest with you now, luv, because you're young and innocent and I think you need the thruth.
Gay men like gay men. And sometimes straight men. Gay men like men.
There are exceptions to the rule, for example bi men with a male preference might be interested in a relationship with a woman, but if he has labled himself as gay, then that's it. He likes men.
I think you need to look at yourself and wonder why you're attracted to a man who's so completely unattainable. Do you have a fear of rejection so you chose men you simply cannot have?
As far as dreams are concerned, I dream that I'm a spy and have gorgeous men falling at my feet ... the reality is far from that.
This guys meets the general characteristics of your ideal man. These are all superficial qualities that he fulfils.
You are having a huge crush on him. That is a very sweet feeling to have. Maybe one day when you are in a real relationship you will realise the difference between a crush and being in love.
Please dont fool yourself that you might be the woman who can turn a gay man into a straight one.
gay men are the best listeners, sweet, calm etc. i have gay friends and i always wished my hubby was just like them, in terms of their understanding and patience that is!
thobacii,you need to convince yourself that your friend is a gay.
there is nothing cute or lovely about a gal fantasising a gay guy.
try to meet more straight guys.
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