Posted by
lavaflow
17 yrs ago
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1.they are living together , the gal takes pills , so no need any condoms between them .
2. Recently they fight a lot , due to money issues, diff. opinions & styles , etc. But they are trying to save this relationship still...
3.The guy isn't a party animal type, not flirting around. He made her trust him that he is totally faithful in this relationship.Last weekend he went to Wanchai with friends, got drunk till 3am home. Such a case never happened before. Fine. Today while the gal washed his clothes , found a box of condoms (unopened) , what do you think ???
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I think he was preparing in his mind that if anything happened he would not risk his or his partners health...unopened box means he stayed faithful...forgive him..he has learned his lesson.
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Either he was looking to get laid, he put them there knowing you would find them, or one of his mates put them there and he knew nothing about it.
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Try to put yourself in his position maybe you will get the answer....
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Agree with JC, wld like to know why too.
You've got ur feedbacks on ur previous thread and ur bringing up new problems? When a relationship can't be saved, it can't...don't force it.
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It's nothing unusual for men in reltionships to toddle off to bars for a few drinks, and take the necessary precautions just in case they get in "over their heads"
A married friend of mine came along to a pretty innocent bar last weekend. Plenty of pretty girls dancing provocatively but any sexual activity is pretty hush-hush. Most of the girls wouldn't be interested.
Jeez talk about precautions. He has supposedly given up smoking so this time I got lumbered with his cigarettes, as usual, and an unopened pack of condoms.
I reckon your fella was probably scared off. My friend certainly was.
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It is a no win situation.
A. If his buddies put the pack in his pocket to upset you, it's not cool.
B. If he thought he might screw around, not cool.
C. If he did it to taunt or hurt you, not cool.
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Where there is smoke there is fire. Now why would his buddies put condoms in his pocket secretly? Duh, whats the joke in that? What is it they wanted him to go home without knowing and his girlfriend finds out? Strange sense of humour they have.
And what are the chances he wouldnt have noticed the condom box in his pocket? How did they get them there? Seriously thats hard to believe
Lets get real. He bought them and he put them there. Why they were not use? Perhaps he paid for a hooker or picked up a girl bought condoms and but they didnt use a condom and he forgot them in his pocket?
Of all the scenarios this is the most likely
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I don't buy the mates' practical joke theory. An unopened box might mean he didn't do it this time. It could also mean he did do it, but didn't use / was too drunk to use a condom. It could also mean she had condoms so he didn't have to use his. Which might mean he pays for sex and tries to save money at the same time. Charming. You might want to watch out on the condoms too. These girls are probably trying to save money, so they might be buying the low-end copies.
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mjo
17 yrs ago
It's who's he's using them with that I'd worry about.
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i agree with the comments above. Mio does it matter who he used them with if he has the intention to cheat (at least from the circumstances that appear)?
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I always think there are some mistakes we should never make in our life , otherwise noway to return . Just like a fine mirror , it's dropped into pcs, glued but will have scars left , never be a fine mirror again.
This condoms' case is just approved my believing.
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Meems
17 yrs ago
Seems that you are the only one trying to save this relationship......chuck him!
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Omigod.... lighten up all you moralistic kiddies.
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Give him a break!
You guys never heard of safe masturbation?
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Justthisonce, I guess that can safely be termed as sperm collection... ;-)
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Seriously though -- what are you thinking lavaflow??
A box of condoms in his pocket?? The man cannot be trusted. Don't be a fool....false hope that he is all faithful after a trip from Wanchai with condoms in pocket!! You can't be so naive. He only gets points for the fact that he atleast had the sense to use condoms!!
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Where there's smoke there's fire, I am sorry but it is pretty obvious. You have to make a choice if this is acceptable to you but you can not deny it. Where can this go from here? Several years down the track you have children and you are confronted with it when you can no longer deny it? This is your life, your future and relathionships are important in determining the quality of both. Find someone who deserves you and respects you enough to not do this and to be honest if they do make a mistake. OK, it's a difficult time but one person is turning in to save the relationship the other appears to be turning out to deal with it. Sometimes it is just not worth saving.
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don't make it complicated. ask him! ask him why he has those in his pocket, and ask him to be honest to you. whether or not you like his answer, you have to make a decision about your relationship with him. don't be a martyr, ask him!
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Lord have mercy!
If I have a box of matches in my pocket does that make me an arsonist?
We have a restaurant in Bangkok that gives condoms away at the end of a meal.
Maybe a friend gave them to him as a joke. Maybe they did go to a bar and the guy was so scared that he bought the condoms just in case he got drunk.
My friend (mentioned above) had one night in a very tame bar and was so scared by the women he has left Thailand (avec wife and child). I kid you not. He was shocked. Good job his missus didn't find the condoms.... and the cigarettes.
Maybe our man here was curious, and with curiosity assuged has come to appreciate what he already has.
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Until you talk to him; there are an endless amount of possibilities and what ifs to describe the situation.
He could have bought them for his friend but his friend did not need they and he held onto them. Or for some joke that was never carried out.
The "fact" that he "forgot" them in his pocket can indicate 2 things. Either he intended to use them and was careless in covering his actions or being in possesion of a box of condoms was not of importance to him.
PS. I think most of us, while drunk, have done some seemingly unexplainable/odd/strange/illogical/irrational/ downright silly things.
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lavaflow, it's been a month. have you asked him already? care to update us?
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Were they flavoured condoms?
Maybe he thought you would enjoy the taste of banana but was too afraid to ask.
Lots of innocent explanations are there is you look. Going by the assumptions on here it seems every man who discovers his wife on the pill should be filing for divorce.
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