Posted by
iceicebabe
19 yrs ago
I read this line some time before,it said, in a relationship, when u feel wierd, then there must be something weird there as ur feeling always proves to be true. what do u think?
I do feel a little bit wierd about my relationship nowadays.. the typical 'he is successful in career so he is too busy to acompany me'story. i'm not here to look for comfort, or listen to complaining from ladies under the same situation, just want to hear some pertinent ideas/suggestions to this situation: things seems to be all right, but u feel doubtful for the other, how to deal with that feeling? communication seems unhelpful as he would tell u that there is nothing to be worried about, ppfff, end of discusion.
Pls tell me what u think
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if you love him then you should trust him. Try not to be emotional. Time will prove everything...
btw, how offen you guys see each other?
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*V*
19 yrs ago
hmm... sounds to me that you are just lonely and want more attention from him... your insecurity is making you to think that something is wrong...
Relax, do your own things, go out with your friends, don't put him in the center of your life!
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Insecurity is a dangerous thing in relationship. Maybe we all need to be brave to face all the uncertainties in front of us..
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Let me clear up the situation, we have been seeing each other for a year or so, i don't think he is cheating on me, yes, Tuttifrutti, u r right, he seems to focus more on his career than me at the moment,and i'm not sure he will change in the future, neither do i expect that. We cannot change others, right? Now the ball in on my side, i need to figure out whether i can accept the way the relationship goes. i think this kind of stories are very common nowadays, but when it comes to yourself, it'll never be easy to make a decision: to let go or continue? because you still love him. you want to continue, but feel hopeless with how to solve the problems which he does not regard as a problem.
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Tuttifrutti, my answer to ur questions,which is actually not a problem as to me, my bf's business is based in SH and France, he will stay in SH in a long-term if not permanant. He wants to settle down, so do i. and we discussed about marriage. but talking abt marriage and getting marriage are two different things.
And what u said is quite to the point, i cannot use my love to him as an excuse to ignore the problems between us, i know i know, and love will fade away as time goes by.. i have to face the problem and try solve it.that's why i'm here..
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