Posted by
lammasita
19 yrs ago
Before you all get on your high horses, this isn't a stab at men.
I was told today that a fifteen year old girl said, that 'when it comes to love, men are much more sensitive and clingy'. The clarification being that men are much more willing to 'make-do', if they are not sure whether they are right for their partner; whereas women, when they make a decision, will simply end it all and move on.
I was astonished that someone so young could look at relationships that way.
In some ways I think she could be onto something here, for instance my ex has never had more than a couple of weeks between relationships, he would hold out 'til someone different would come along.
What do you think about the girl's statement?
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....of course if that's true, then why are there so many callous sh**s out there?
Are females simply misunderstanding them??!!
hmmmm...
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pfff...
...(little green cloud of smoke rises...)
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I would agree with that statement and add to it by saying that they often don't know what it is that they want. Sometimes they need a little nudge in the right direction.
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Perhaps a lot of people aren't aware of the scars they carry, therefore not an obvious statement to some.
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I agree with what the 15 year old girl said....
From my observation men make a decision pretty quickly when they meet a woman that they want to marry that she is the one....
Many men, while good and faithful to Ms. Right Now, will never view this as a relationship forever...perhaps they do need a little nudge like Vulvic suggested. HOWEVER my suggestion is if they feel too nudged, they will be the most likely men to stray later on. After all it is not a decision they have naturally made themselves.
However if they fall head over hills in love, now it is the men that take it the hardest, and boy, a man jilted is not a pretty sight....
A women when she leaves will generally have made the decision quite a while before she leaves and so there is no going back....it is all thought about done, and thus no discussion will change her mind. She has already been through the metamorphis.
This is all from reading, observing and experience. HOWEVER of course there are exceptions.
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So true Flabbergasted, never nudge a man too far of too hard, he will eventually scarper.
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Sex is good, sex is yummy ... ooh ooh aaah aaah (scratching butt)
Yeah, no kidding, we are all like that.
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Thanks for all your responses!!
Thought there would be lots to talk about, but it's all been said soooo many times before!!!
Nice listening to you guys chat though!! Would have entered the talk, but have been ill...
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