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snuffles
19 yrs ago
They set fire to your dog?!!!!!! Couldn't they be arrested for that?!
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That is friggin' crazy. And I thought I had weird flatmates because one thought she was the reincarnation of Edward VI, another had an eating disorder, one thought that airing his clothes was a perfectly good solution to ever washing them and another who was a 'friend' stole money off me the entire time we lived together. But this is all a bit off topic.
It's hard to point the finger and say 'slut!' nowadays without sounding old fashioned and unliberated. I think cheating probably qualifies, but not mecessarily the no. of partners. But obviously one has to play it safe. So flatmate #1 would qualify as a slut in my eyes but not #2 though they both sound like crazy bitches.
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Lol, cool, just as long as you don't start telling me that the reason you moved to HK was because you clearly remember your past life as a Governer or something.
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A "slut" is someone that won't sleep with "you". But sleeps with everyone else. Be it guy or girl :-)
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In my opinion, a 'slut' is just one of those names that the jelous, insecure people came up with from the start.
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tia
19 yrs ago
A good mate and I agreed that if we could recall all their names, we were not sluts. For some people, recalling a triple digit amount of names could be tough....if that were the case.
My number is high for some and low for others. I am fine with it, as it the b/f, which is all I care about.
FArk the others and what they think. Your life, your body, your bed.
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people have started to come up with their own definition of 'slut',these days <-- if that really is a term to describe a certain someone.
I get called a 'slut' for wearing clothers that happen to show my upper arms and my neck, by the locals!
*laughs*.. what will I get called if Im seen 'mingling' with a certain someone??!
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evohe
19 yrs ago
Going back to the original topic.
Something that would surprise you, a man that sleeps with tones of ugly birds does not have that much respect from other men, unless they are stunning of course. Otherwhise he is what we call a "garbage collector". After the slut, who is a feminine urban legend, here is her male counter part. By the way, a woman is more easily called a slut by her "friends", than by other men. Is it because she assumes more easily her sexuality and enjoy it much more than her "friends" who are slightly frustrated on the libido side ??? Just asking. BTW, same applies to the garbage collector.
So why is she/he getting laid and not MEEE ? Ahhh I know the answer : because she/he is a slut/gb and I have higher standards. Pfffui, so it is not me, it is her/him.
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KAT8
19 yrs ago
evohe,
I don't get it! what's your point?
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KAT8
19 yrs ago
Well as the saying goes "you can tell a lot about a person by the friends they have".
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KAT8
19 yrs ago
where is your reply evohe??
Ah you are working? or looking at a dictionary?
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evohe
19 yrs ago
Ok,
In some countries, if a girl sleeps with a man outside the marriage, her father or brother can kill her without being procecuted. Because the honor of the family has been tained.
So there a slut is someone who sleeps before getting married. Simple.
In our western society, since the 60's there has been a social revolution. Now it is acceptable to sleep with someone before getting married. Why is that so ? Because before you did not choose with whom you are getting married, your parents choose for you. Now the choice is ours.
And it is not that easy, we have to explore, to try and discover what we want. Sexuality is part of the discovery, because it is part of the life of a couple.
It requires confidence to approach someone and say I like you, running the risk of rejection. It requires maturity to know what you want. So it requires some strength to go out there and explore, discovering what you like and getting it.
Some women choose : they explore, discover what they like in a man, and accept their sexuality and that sexe is part of that choosing process. It is perfectly ok. Those women are happy I suppose, because they are in control.
But most women are more cautious, you know 40 years ago, it is not that long ago. And men are not that mature as well in the process of choosing. If women are scared of sexe, men are equally scared of commitment.
So freedom of choosing yes, no matter how long it takes. But it is a give and take men should not abuse that freedom of choice and lure women with fake commitment. Sex goes with commitment.
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my roomie was dumped by an old taiwanese who is kinda her boss(splet with him 1 week after they met), who seems to be a little bit mentally ill too as he kept telling her lies which were too ridiculous to believe./ after being dumped, she started hooking up another guy in her office right away(the next day), and started relationship with another guy who was hooked from internet at the same time. she is now playing the role of girl friend with all of them,even including the old tw who dumped her as he still wanted to keep sex relationship. she thought she was pure in heart though tangly in phisical relationships.only by this way, she can find a little bit peace of mind. is she slut?dunno. just feel ridiculous about her, dunt understand what she expected from all the mess. it's a pity to see someone struggle amongst all the bad relations, and keeping lying to herself to get some fake hopes which won't lead to anything.
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