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will you accept your gf after she had sex w other guy?

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Posted by rockstar 16 yrs ago
just post ur answer

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FKKC 16 yrs ago
If it was understood as to be "a steady relationship" between the 2 parties and not one-sided, the answer is 'no'.

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Hongkong7 16 yrs ago
Rockstar relax and play it this way


pick your time to let her know you are not pleased----there will thus be a blazing row followed by the best angry make-up sex ever


remember the angrier the sex the better -for both of you


if you get her sorted out properly she will soon forget the other guy


never take the "lets talk about it" approach in this situation




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wawa3456 16 yrs ago
Called me naive, called me old fashioned.....


But definitely NO... on both sides...fundamental rule of a relationship is trust...

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Hongkong7 16 yrs ago
Called me cynical,called me realistic .....


But i am afraid that the girlfriend/wife having at least the occasional fling is a constant


the only variable is whether you know about it or not


so if you are going to dump every girlfriend just because she strayed then you are just hurting yourself -of course if the relationship has some other problems then that is another issue


so if she begs you to forgive then just forget about it and move on


apart from angry sex you could also try another girl yourself as a kind of revenge thing -it will make you feel better anyway


these are practical tips to deal with the situation in the real world

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Hongkong7 16 yrs ago
gill,


your opinion is fine but not helpful-what is your alternative?


Its a treatment not a cure


kind of like insulin for diabetes -it doesnt cure it but its better than any alternative


i amaze myself with the brilliance of my analogy

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Donut Waver 16 yrs ago
I'd drop her like a hot potato.


Move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea!

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xiaomu0813 16 yrs ago
i am a girl

but if i were a boy i wont accept her

if she didnt let me know about what happened thats fine

but if this was exposed no way~

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Hongkong7 16 yrs ago
good point by Gill--


"only those who have cheated also are able to forgive the other cheater..."


maybe rockstar is not a cheater himself in the past so yes may be more difficult for him to deal with i agree


i actually hadn't considered this as i naturally assumed that %100 or near enough of men(and by default rockstar) are themselves cheaters-and as such it would be hypocritical not to forgive the girlfriend


but maybe rockstar is not a cheater himself in the past so yes may be more difficult for him to deal with i agree

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