Posted by
Dorris
19 yrs ago
well folks ...im out of here...maybe i'll check on you all when im back in britain.
I got cheated on and ended up a mess and now im running home to mum.
Havent worked since august and dont seem to be able to find those working feet here in HK
I've had enough and im sure the only way to recover is to make a drastic change.
I called KLM today and i leave tomorrow am.
My best mate Lammasita left for Singapore before i had made this decision....so i wont see her face to face to tell her i love her and goodbye...sob sob
keep writing and all the best
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Really Dorris??? That's terribley sad. I hope things work out for you back home.
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YEH i'll get that ticket as i step into Leeds airport! :) :)
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i know your right China doll in some ways...but sadly i have made myself sick with all this too mate. I have IBS and in times of stress normal people shove crap down their throats to feel better....well i keep doing this and dont sleep, get more stressed, end up smoking sh*t loads and am worse off. I run to mum cos she is the only person who wont allow me to do this sh*t and then i have some chance of recovery! Get it! LOL.....
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plus ..i should add (though im not trying to reason with anyone...lol) Britain provides foods with f* labels so i wont end up eating some sh*t thats gunna make me more sick!
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Agree, go home and get some TLC. When you are feeling right in yourself, you can re-asess your situation.
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lulu
19 yrs ago
So Dorris, you are AOP as well?
You are leaving us? oh no, be strong and take care and hope you recover soon. There is no place like home thou.
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Yeh i was aop but look out for me from brit...i'll be thebrit there okay! LOl
Just called my mum and she's crying, maybe cos she's thinking ooooh my god where will we put the other daughter...lol.....nah she was real worried cos im stuck on lamma and have had a bit of a hard run of recent
Ex BF treated me real mean but i know its all up to me now and a change is as good as a rest they say. I need a fresh start thats all...and theres nothing like mums roast to sort a girl out xx cheers all and make sure you look after lammasita for me. she gunna be gutted cos i live just 2 minutes away from her and usually see her every day...but hayho we do these crazy spare of the moment things and they sort us right out! :)
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This is what I love about Hong Kong (there are lots of things I don't like!) but reading this thread has shown me just how supportive friends whether they be virtual or tangible are. I hope Dorris got lots of warmth from these messages to her. I will miss her, but I've been here 9 years and I know just how bloomin lonely it gets. I do feel sad Dorris couldn't stick it out - it makes you realise how strong you are! It's a shame she didn't see your support as a cushion for survival out here, I think it may have made it harder to leave.
I have come to the conclusion that friends in an expat environment become your 'external' family, they listen, advise and generally pick you up when you're down. At home friends don't do that so much because you have your real family to fall back on. I'm just a little sad Dorris didn't see this. Ah well, I just hope she is happier at home....
thank you for being such lovely people!!
:) BTW don't worry 'bout me, I'm a hardened cynic who manages to pull through bloody anything!! :D
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tia
19 yrs ago
Good luck Dorris!! We'll miss you. Hope it all works out for you.
Lammasita, you can always come find us lot for a night out if you want it! :)
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Absolutely!!
Tried a thread about that earlier, but it was pulled as quick as anything!!
Dorris may be back in Jan.... could have another New Year party to try and follow up on all those New Years resolutions that were broken by the 2nd of Jan!!! Ooh! and I'll be celebrating a double digit of a birthday!! Maybe 2006 year will be better for me??......hmmm
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tia
19 yrs ago
A double digit birthday, as in 22 or 33, or as in you are no longer 9 but now 10? ;-) (joking).
There are always reasons for a get together. We should arrange something in the New Year. Welcome in the year of the dog with all the biatches getting together. ;-) hee hee.
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Great idea...... and the lucky digits are 33.... everything happens in threes for me so maybe it'll happen in double doses next year!!!.......help me!
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