any good marriage consultant recommended?

Want to give it a try. Can anyone recommend some good marriage consultant / matchmaking agency / dating service company


Have tried looking at some singles parties organizer or speed dating agency. But seems I am too old at the dating scene. They only accept women before 34 but men no age limit or up to 40. In some cases, they need age proof. So I'm not qualified to join this


Can anyone recommend some one-on-one marriage consultancy service? for older age group like 35 or above

i can't believe the dating agency will actually put an age limit on women, that's bizarre, so they all want younger women???

Try the internet, many in UK and US do it. Just don't talk about it.

You see everybodies background interests, you can communicate in writing, you know where people live, you can see a photo (if they don't post one you can always ask. All from the 'safety/security' of your own chair. You can even see wht people are looking for in a relationship - marriage, friendship etc.


Then if you want you can meet. Much better than a blind date. More reliable than a speed date.


Better than trying to make a judgement about the opposite sex when you have had too much at a bar or club.


Meeting the right person is a numbers game. If you only meet 10 new people a year your odds are limited. With a big website the number of people you can see are multiplied, and unlike meeting others outside, you know that they too are seeking someone.


Also reduced fear of rejection, as you are sort off asking someone out from a safe distance.

You can then decide if you want to meet.

I hasten to add I mean internet dating services.

Not the mail order bride/husband services.

The latter of which I have doubts about some of the people who run some of these outfits, or thier motives.


Ed - I think I have been non-specific enough to not be libelous.

HK Lady >> Marriage consultant? -- I wouldn't go in for this option, so I wouldn't advise you to go for it. It'll be some sort of arrangement (as it happens in some cultures at where I come from), and this would hardly result in a satisfying relationship.


Why not try the personals right here on AsiaXpat? It has been beneficial to some people and, I believe, it work for you too. Also, there are so much internet site you can get to know some 'guys'.


Btw, I didn't know age has become a measuring/limiting tool. Hmmmm!, take heart and explore.