Marriage...

"three or more proposals..." wow, keimochi, you must be AMAZING

VOR .. amazing.. or else very rich and very old!

Are you very 'bendy'? Or able to balance a round of drinks on your chest? Men like that sort of thing.

"Average year and only half way through..." amazing-er and amazing-er! keimochi, i'd ask you to marry me, but i'm a straight woman.

Keimochi,Don't just jump into marriage just because you can see all these woman driving around in fancy cars and have all these materialistic things in life, if you don't love that person how can that possible keep you happy long term?

My friend from back home married a guy which she later confessed was because of the lifestyle she could have, they are still together after 8 yrs but are always breaking up and she openly tells me when she goes out she will go with other men,WHY? Its because she doesn't love him and money can't buy your love, And sooner or later you will realise that its not enough to make a marriage work.

1) You have two choices in life:>> >You can stay single and be miserable or get married and wish you were dead.


2)At a c*cktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger? "Yes, I am. I married the wrong man.">

That was just for laughs, Keimochi!........btw you need to think wisely whether you are ready or not.

Don't be tempted! Have you been thinking about wanting to get married? Have you wondered if you're really ready yet? You wonder if maybe it's the right move to make. Being with the same person for the rest of your life. It's romantic to dream about, but you wonder if you'll eventually fall out of love.

How married life will be - what you two will do for each other, when you'll have kids, and how you'll keep your relationship happy.

In most relationships, there is usually a time lag between the partners' readiness to commit. It's rare that two people come to the conclusion that they want to get hitched at the exact same moment. If you're in a situation in which you or your partner feels that you need more time before saying "I do," pay attention to that feeling. A therapist once gave me this rule of thumb for knowing when you're ready to get married: When you think about marrying your beloved, you should feel a giant yes echoing through your heart, body and brain. (Since some of us are more subdued than that, I'd settle for a calm, certain sure :-)

I wish you well!!!