My boyfriend had injured his knee. I was worried and concerned about him. I wanted to go give him some tender loving care but he refused my sincere offer. Saying he has never taken any woman in his house and that including me. I was indeed so hurt and upset. My heart is still aching. Pls give me some advise :-(
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sorry I can only say he is not that into you, and he doesn't want to a close relationship with you. please forget about him. move on and be happy.
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But he says he wants me and wants us to develope into a relationship soon. I guess saying it and putting it into action are 2 different thing. So disappointed :-(
Thks Ms. Dilemma
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You have not given enough background information to say very much.
You say he said, "But he says he wants me and wants us to develope into a relationship soon"
The word 'soon', means 'not now'.
What do you mean when you say you want to give him loving care?
Do you mean that you suggested moving in with him?
If this is the case then that would be a big step in a relationship. Not something you take lightly and not something over just an injured knee.
If he is not ready to live with somebody, that does not make him a bad guy, or non commital.
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That depends on what kind of relationship you expect, in my experience, this guy won't be right for you. I got hurt 3 years ago as same as ur situation. We girls always expect a warm and caring relationship, but sometimes ( might most of times) we just picked the wrong persons who we didn't realise at that time. It won't lead to a happy ending.
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Hi Tigerbay.
I guess "soon" means not now!! He's a workaholic - I honestly have no problem with that as he's not womanising and at the moment his working on a major construction project. We haven't seen each other since X'mas evening. However, I feel excluded from his life when he refused to take me to attend church service on X'mas day and to have X'mas lunch with his friends. When he'd guests from Australia, he didn't want me to meet them. I felt so left out and still feel upset about it. I did mention to him but he didn't give me much response. No, I didn't suggested moving in with- just wanted to spend some time with him, keep him company and comforty plus making sure his meals are taken care of. I really dislike what he said "I have never taken no woman in my house and that include you!" That's the same man who ardours sweet intimate words to me and says HE LOVE ME over the phone and sms.
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FKKC
16 yrs ago
Have not seen each other since Christmas - that's a long time for someone who claimed to want a relationship with you.......and the manner of excluding you in most of his activities in his social life. My advice to you is to move on and find someone who will appreciate you.
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Thks everyone. When I'm emtional involved, I just can't think logically. That's why I need outsiders to help me SNAP myself out of this.
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I see it exactly as Cara does.
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